I live with them and also with other people that are so lazy they expect me be the one doing everything what can I do ? help :-(
and i feel like I cant say anything ? I feel like Iam in hell......
also Iam 7months pregnant.....I feel sorry for my husband because I go to him whining.....poor honey...... we cant afford being onour own !!!!
2007-01-12 16:43:04 · 4 answers · asked by married_n_love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hopefully you will be able to understand this...when you move in with other people then you tend to submit yourself to their will and not the other way around. I'm not saying to be everyone's servant but do your best to share the chores and do your part. Actually I was taught that beggars can't be chosers. It's only fitting if you can't pay for your own home that you show your gratitude by helping out and not complaining about what others are not doing. I understand that you feel that they are taking advantage of you but the situation you are in...you chose with your eyes wide open. The word "humility" comes to mind. I had to do it with my mother in-law and I had three all under the age of three and I had to consider all I'm saying to you and now my house is big enough to put their house inside about four times. Try not to hurt yourself while cleaning but continue to not make them regret their decision to allow you to live with them. Hopefully you won't have to be there long.
2007-01-12 17:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this.....believe me though......I've been in your shoes.....pregnant and everything.......but......it is their house! I had a terrible time when I had to live with my in-laws. They were impossible! My best was still not good enough. Ugh! Just start making serious considerations about where you want to live.....set goals. Settle for something smaller if you have to. I was soooo glad to finally get out of my in-laws home. But while you are there.....it is their rules, their turf. Just gotta bite the bullet.
2007-01-12 16:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by ♥2323vsb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you cleaning house if your pregnant and it's not your house. I know you live there and your probably somewhat greatfull but you should still tell them that you need help because you refuse to do anymore.
2007-01-12 16:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by bubblies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋