i am 15 and there is a girl who i think is really beautiful.about a month i introduced myself and started to speak to her like for two minutes once every three days . i cant really explain how she is but she doesnt talk that much but it isnt like she doesnt talk at all since then all i could think about was her and everytime i spoke to her she smiled and was very friendly. but now i feel like i am loosing her she is getting bored of me she doesnt smile that much around me .is not that i said anything dumb or stupid but i want her to like me , make her laugh and make feel more comfotable around me and i want to get closer to her and be her friend first and guys like me dont usually get girls like her.im not ready to tell her how i feel just yet but i do wanna get close to her. help what should i say to her and do
2007-01-12 16:33:27 · 3 answers · asked by Josh j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are 15... You have your whole entire life ahead of you. Just casually chat with her, like you would a friend... For example, how do you talk to your friend you have known since kindergarten?
Once you are friends, then start flirting. And don't get too attached to her yet. She may just see you as a friends only type of guy. The only way you will find out though is if you try. Joho is right... Don't try so hard. Women, (and girls for that fact), can sniff out desparation... And to them, that is the worst smell in the world. They will turn tail and run. Just be yourself.
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2007-01-12 16:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants you to not be just a friend but show her your confident, calm, and under control.
2007-01-13 00:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try to try less. it sounds like u are trying too hard. give her some space and give her time. just try to look for someone else right now. just try to be yourself. good luck
2007-01-13 00:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋