I've been trying to reconcile my ex-girlfriend for some weeks now, but she tells me she already has a guy that she don't want to cheat. Now, I'm going to visit her on her birthday, she has already consented to my visit. What gift would you think appropriate as I still hope to plead with her to take me back. I already told her that I am coming to plead her to take me back. Because I still love her. Please, what gift do you think is appropriate and efficient?
2007-01-12 16:43:53 · 22 answers · asked by Lisa L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She doesnt want to cheat but she already consented you coming over?? hmmm...discrepancy right there. Take her to a bed and breakfast for the weekend. Remove her from her usual environment and she wont have her new guy lingering in her head as much. Have the best sex ever (her on the receiving end of course) and voila!
2007-01-12 16:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by nyenelra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Roses and a love letter, and... tell her 'I still love you,' If that doesn't work have a backup gift. Something like a fake ring out of a toy machine, give it to her and say 'With this ring I promise never to toy with your heart,' Yet i daydream a little too much, but hey, I could write a mean book. Good luck, if all else fails you can always tell her that her new boyfriend has a boyfriend or something. Don't give up if you really love her, cause it would be a pity to waste that love you obviously have, maybe you just gotta show her what shes missing.
K~
2007-01-12 16:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by blonde_bubbles89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As someone still in love with an ex-girlfriend from 18 months ago, I feel your pain. But you've got to try to forget about her.
You can't make anyone love you; you can't make anyone miss you. Pleading won't make her want you back.
1) Give her the gift of missing you (don't call or otherwise contact her unless she calls you first.
2) The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Really, it helps quite a bit.
2007-01-12 16:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jay S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have been with here before I am sure that there is something that she said she wanted that you were never able to get here. Well, think about that. Or you can just aim for out doing her boyfriend. Don't forget the flowers (hint: her favorite kind). The key to getting a girl back is letting her know that you remember things that made her happy.
2007-01-12 16:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by pan2fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beg and plead that would not only come as a surprise to her its truly the best thing you could do for her and you both. Get her a really sweet card keep it friendly and walk away with your head held high. She will come to find that she has retained more respect for you down the line for it.
-NmD!
2007-01-12 16:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if she really don't want to cheat on her new man she wouldn't have consented to you coming to visit her,but since she did make the most of it and just give her a victory secret gift card either she will by something to wear for you or to wear for the new guy,but even if she uses it for the new guy she will think of you as the bigger guy.(she might buy body stuff).
2007-01-12 16:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by sassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best gift you can give to your ex-gf is the ACCEPTANCE.
just accept the reality! accept that she has already another guy and she doesnt love you anymore.
you cant turn back the time..
stop pleasing her!
maybe shes not the right girl for you!
maybe the right girl for you is just somewhere, waiting!
i know its hard but theres nothing you can do
2007-01-12 16:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by issa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on sweetie, as hard as it is. Pleading never works. The best gift you can give her is to call and cancel.
2007-01-12 16:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say stop talking to her. The best way to get her back is to ignore her. Once we women realize that you're not chasing us anymore we soon come running back. Stop making yourself available and most importantly, stop acting like a *****.
2007-01-12 16:49:26 · answer #9 · answered by NeeCee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't degrade yourself. It's much better to just go your own way. At your age. You've got too much time to WASTE on someone who ain't gonna have it for you. Gather yourself. Then tell yourself that Respect means something to you.
2007-01-12 16:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋