I've had quite a few ladies trying to flirt and show me love, but I find it fairly odd obviously for the reason that I just don't go for girls... Who knows if your drunk, you don't know what things you'll end up doing *yikes*. All my lesbot gf's tell me that I should be flattered, but the whole idea just confuses me even more ;P . Just curious to know how any of you feel about having someone of the same sex finding you attractive?
2007-01-12 16:36:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not a lesbian but for some reason I get more flattered when girls call me attractive. Guys are very flirty and a lot just want to get in your pants or say to every girl, "You're so hot!" But girls are known for not being so sweet to each other, so when I get a compliment from a girl, it makes you think she might actually really mean it.
Just my take on the situation :-D
2007-01-12 16:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I've also been hit on by a lot of women. I think that's why i find myself being somewhat bi-curious. Anyway, I think its much more flattering to be hit on by the same sex. When a random man hits on you, its so much more of a sexual thing, but I think when a woman hits on you, the attraction is also sexual, but more genuine, not like the "i just wanna get in your pants" deal with men.
2007-01-13 00:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have been hit on by gay men and told I was attractive by gay men... Ironically, I never heard the same from ANY female (other than relatives or whatever gf I have at the time saying I'm simply Cute in my own way). It is strangely flattering, but not as reassuring as if from the opposite sex, IMHO.
2007-01-13 00:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by tobiasmhunter 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I guess in some sick, twisted way it is flattering. I have had plenty of girls hit on me and I just never could really be friends with them again. It changed our relationship.
2007-01-13 00:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I can understand why this would freak you how, but if you are attractive, you just are and some people aren't that fortunate. If you don't like girls stand your ground and let them know that cause they can sure detect weakness.
2007-01-13 00:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by trublluvsme 2 · 8⤊ 0⤋
No way,i want no part of that.One of my female neighbors said i have pretty legs and i didn't like it one bit.I think she is a bisexual.if she is around i put on long pants so she want see my legs.I just don't go that way,I Love Men?
2007-01-13 00:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lady T 5 · 8⤊ 0⤋
I'd be very uncomfortable with that!
It is so twisted how this can be with some people though!
I had always been BOY CRAZY, and a girl flirting, would make me sick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-13 00:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by julesrules 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's never given me a *****! If that's what you mean. (I can't believe this site censors the word ( B o n e r ).!!!!!!!
2007-01-13 00:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by J B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a little different for women, sweetie!!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2007-01-13 00:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
OK, on some sort of level, I guess it was flattering but it was also plain weird because she was not only a lesbian but 2 years older than me. I wouldn't want a straight guy that much older than me!
It was weird, too, because I had my hair shorter than usual and wasn't wearing much make up so I had all these lesbians paying me attention when I'm straight. When I let my hair grow long and do makeup just this side of Tammy Faye Baker then I have the southern boys and Mexican American guys paying attention to me. When I have my hair medium length and do subdued make up (Mary Kay style) then the white boys find me more attractive. Naturally, at the Star Trek convention in costume, I have nerdy guys swarming me.
It takes all kinds.
2007-01-13 00:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 12⤋