do ya'll think this is wrong or think he is to old for her
2007-01-12 16:35:25 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To old for her, but if she wants it go for it!
2007-01-12 16:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He wants to be young again and is looking for that affirmation in her.
Hopefully the girl has more sense. He's old enough to be her father, and it's her age, more than her, that he is probably interested in.
I'm 46, and it would feel like going to bed with my son if I "hit on" someone that age. If you'r the 19 year old, steer clear. If you're the 41 year old, GROW UP!
2007-01-12 16:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by CassandraM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some countries and cultures,is normal that old men are married with young women,or dating young women.All is up to the couple (man and woman).One famous marriage was Celina Dion,Jessica Simpson,etc.Best way is see people with the same age, or a few years of difference,married.Good question.
2007-01-12 16:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, what is wrong with the guy that he cant find genuine companionship and love with someone in the same stage of life as himself (more important than age is life experience and compatability) and I hope for the woman that she has genuine sense of self and self-esteem (not impossible at 19 but EXTREMELY rare)
2007-01-12 16:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by S W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion i think this is over the top wrong on so many levels. if the person is hitting on her and he is 41 and she is 19 she should have more sense to ignore him because he is way to old. if they do anything together that is rape and he can go to jail. if this is someone you know then you need to tell her that she is getting herself into something dangerous. that she should find someone that is her age.
2007-01-12 16:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by shanice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
more power to the man if he can do it.
she's legal....so past that, screw it. some women get into older men and some men get into older women. and vice versa. as long as its legal who cares. play is play.
now if marriage and all is being talked....then something is starting to become wrong.
being 37.....I'd die if some hot, tiny, tight 19 yr old wanted me. We might be older in numbers, but our mind still thinks young. The young will realize that when they are older....the body ages but the mind does not.
2007-01-12 16:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if people are going to say that it's ok for gay people to marry then it would seem like fair game to allow such a thing.
I personally don't agree with it but I don't see how people who support gay marriage can possibly have a leg to stand on in an opossing argument...
2007-01-12 16:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by AngryAmerican82 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you were 19 how old was the 19old girl
2007-01-12 16:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think about women who marry men thirty years their senior? It's life, look at the animal world, were're not so removed.
2007-01-12 16:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think it is wrong. a 41 yr old man should be dating women his age or at least close to his age. sorry but thats a BIG difference in age... i mean he is old enough to be her father!!! ew!
2007-01-12 16:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by washingtonwhitegirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋