Im 12, i look 16, act 16...Okay, i had this boyfriend, we went out for over a year and then around september the time had to come i had to break up with him because i couldnt keep on hurting him. While we were going out i would mess around with other guys and some how he'd always end up finding out? But then after we broke up i dated a 16 year old.. and he got really mad, and he started calling me names all the time, he would tell me i look like a tramp, he calls me a **** because of me cheating on him and my thong always hangs out.. and he would always have something to say about that. But deep down i still have a soft spot for him but now i just kinda ignore him calling me names, but it still hurts a lot. I am kinda labled as a tramp though. Good advice please!
2007-01-12 16:40:11 · 18 answers · asked by Rebecca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I used to want to have a baby girl but these days I just don't know. Honestly, I will be blunt here even though your to young to really appreciate it. Its one thing to be labeled as something your not or just based on mistakes you have made in life even. I just think it is sad that girls feel they have to have their thongs hanging out or act trashy to get a guy. It is becoming harder and increasingly harder to find a woman who you can have respect and faith towards. You need to get your head straight and change your ways right now, cause your not going to like where the road your on now puts you in the near future. I don't personally believe anyone is a tramp but we often pick and choose our battles in life. While you may get the boys now someday your going to be a woman and not dealing with little boys. You need to decide if you want to be the type of woman who gets used and abused or one a man will think she would make some man very lucky as his wife someday. There are to many girls letting themselves believe that all we want is the promiscuous girl with her thongs sticking out.
-NmD!
2007-01-12 16:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hurt by what you did. And if you are only 12 what are you doing messing around with other guys?? AND fyi if you're thong does hang out that is NOT attractive. And if it was me I would be pissed you cheated on me too so I can't blame him for calling you names. You will always have a soft spot for him but if you dont want to be called a tramp you need to prove yourself. There really isnt an easy way to do that especialy after you've cheated. That is one of the worst things you can possibly do to someone. And you should really rethink the whole 16yr old bf thing. I mean 4 years may not seem like a big age difference when you grow up and it wont be but right now you are in totaly different stages in ur lifes.
2007-01-13 00:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kallie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't want to be called a tramp don't act like one..panties aren't meant to be seen by all...it looks really trachy(and not in a good way)when someones thong is hanging out. Can you blame him for being mad at you about cheating?? i mean really. You obviously don't act sixteen because any sixteen would tell you that you are acting immature. If you don't like how your b/f is acting towards you stop acting the way you are or get rid of him.
2007-01-13 00:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a tramp. Get yourself some self respect. Men/boys only go with tramps for one thing... you will never meet your emotional needs.
YOu shoujld deal with the sexual abuse, or separated parents - probably don't see your father issues, or you will never be in a healthy realtionship...
PS: you are 12 - Enjoy that child you will have when you are 14.
2007-01-13 00:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by MinkeyMink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just the fact that you're 12 and wearing a thong and dating at 16yr old is scary. Where the hell are your parents? I hate to be the one to break it to ya, but it sounds like you've earned the tramp nickname.
2007-01-13 00:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by motoxfan00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like you are 12 and not 30. Dress in a more conservative way. Shock everyone-you will look much more grown up. Look nice and act nice and let him know that you are turning over a new leaf and you expect him to treat you with respect. Work on getting rid of that label you don't need it.
2007-01-13 00:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been labelled as a tramp because you have been acting like a tramp. What do you need advice for? It sounds like you've been doing a pretty thorough job ruining your reputation by yourself.
2007-01-13 00:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a 12 yr old you need to worry about where you are going in life not how maney people you can lay with youre not fully develop and youre leading to sellling your self for less not more think all men and boys have sex on there mind and the number on the belt they can notch before they decide on what they want get back in the books not the pants youre only a notch wake up dont be a easy gjirl but a smart one think
2007-01-13 00:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by Judy D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell hm you're really sorry for hurting hima dn that if he wants to be your friend or even talk to you anymore then he's going to have to stop calling you things like that. Tell him he's just jealous because he can't have you!!! let him know that you don't care if he calls you a tramp because you know you're too good for him, ect. ... just don't let him get to u. he sounds like he still likes you and is hurt so don't worry its just his way of dealing with the pain.
2007-01-13 00:48:07 · answer #9 · answered by washingtonwhitegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somehow I feel like you are only getting what you deserve. But the best thing that I can tell you is leave him alone, and maybe change yourlife around before end up with some kind of STD or something. Your young, theres still time.
2007-01-13 00:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by pan2fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋