I have a problem identifying what I'm feeling...actually I'm having trouble figuring this guy out. He was nice but its pointless to explain how he made me feel about myself. The point is I'm not willing to go see him and ask about this, I've no intention to intrude in his life. If I can't get myself to ignore this I will try drowning myself. Why is this feeling torturing me like nothing can be better than him, like no matter what I do nothng can be better, he's not everything but why can't I effin forget about him, what could I possibly miss without him. Nothing, right? Aaaaghhhh!!!Help!!
2007-01-12 16:15:55 · 13 answers · asked by anna 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in love once.. so in love I was blind to all the bad things he was doing.... I though he was the end all, be all. The perfect man. We broke up. I was in sheer misery....but then one day it just got a lot easier to live my life without him, and I was a lot happier too. If he was the one for you, you would not be feeling this right now.
2007-01-12 16:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by michellecdnd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of time and even more chocolate usually work for me!
Go on a man mission- seriously. Challenge yourself to find 3 guys with potential in 3 days. Change up your routine a bit so you have something else to focus on. This might speed up the process.
And, who knows, there's always a chance things will work out with this guy in the end.
2007-01-12 16:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by artichoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very natural to still have strong feelings for someone when you have not had REAL closure especially when things end on the wrong note. There is no quick fix time heals just try to get out and meet people and keep yourself busy. I have been there and I know that eventually you'll wonder why you even ever cared trust me:)
2007-01-12 16:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by OMeganO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him honey. He doesn't sound worth it and you sound like you have some soul searching to do before you get involved with someone.
If you ignore the guys and go with the laissez-faire approach, it will be much more effective than the "OMG-what-is-he-thinking-what-is-he-doing-what-should-I-do" approach.
Go shopping, read a book, volunteer. Just don't sit around thinking about these guys. Let them come to you.
2007-01-12 16:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not a stupid question.
You just need to get all of that energy your concentrating on him...and use it on something else.
Pick up a hobby or join a club. Personally, going to the gym or getting involved in sports helps to distract me, make me feel productive and I even meet new people.
2007-01-12 16:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by shaigrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him and tell him how you feel about him. If you love him then tell him, ask him out, or just tell him that you want to know more about him and then let him talk. If you want to figure him out then get to know him a little better.
2007-01-12 16:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 23:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by bonanno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you question is???
Why waste your time trying to determine what you're feeling?
Especially if it's negative. No one needs to feel negative as the result of another. There's nothing to figure out. Drop it...and him!
2007-01-12 16:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you should listen to your instincts. get back out into the game and play the field all the while remembering to be responsible and honest.
2007-01-12 16:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by tajura001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could miss alot. you should try and give him a chance. giving him a chance will help you decide if you explore something more with him or just decide not to see him again.
2007-01-12 16:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by butterflyheaveng 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋