Because three times I've liked a guy friend.. we were so close, talked on the phone everynight Ithought theyd like me back.. but i find out later they're into the little girly flirt.
Im not the type to flirt.. so i dont talk to that many guys.. but i feel that guys seem to go for the ones that are outgoing and flirt.. and i dont know what to do..
2007-01-12 16:05:57 · 27 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself to many girls worry about stuff like this and then blow their chances trying to be what they think the guy wants. Its refreshing to meet a woman who is comfortable and happy just being who she is. That's the difference between these girls who are trying to be beautiful and the ones who actually are.
-NmD!
2007-01-12 16:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys enjoy the company of flirty girls because it makes them feel good about themselves that a girl likes them in one way or another. It is similar to when a guy compliments a girl for whatever reason. Outgoing and flirty is great if it is who you are. You must understand that shy girls are well liked too and that flirty typed people sometimes get more than they bargained for and lead on guys by mistake.
2007-01-13 00:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by jazzyfresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you accept the fact that guys are basically pigs (I'm a guy too). You obviously don't have a problem meeting guys, you say so yourself. To tell you the truth, I don't go for the flirty type. I'm secure enough in my masculinity that I need no reassurance. You are the person I would gravitate towards. You, I'm sure, will live long and love well. Don't rush things and please for your sake be yourself and don't change a thing. Someone like me will come along (I am not saying I'm perfect or I'm your type) and we will connect. Be confident in your beauty and charm and have Faith and someone will see you for who you are.
Bless you.
2007-01-13 00:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by Wabbit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG yes guys love flirty girls.
My friend is a big flirt. She has a boyfriend who goes to college (and we are in gr.11) and she manages to flirt with everyguy in school. SHe doesnt like them but she likes the attention and all the guy sfall for her at least once.. shes not even that pretty.. just flirty and loud
2007-01-13 00:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think guys tend to like a little flirting, it strokes the ego - like if a guy flirts with you right? Too much flirting might lead to the wrong impression though - keep it light!
2007-01-13 00:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by newintown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Outgoing people in general have better luck, because, well... they're more outgoing and social, and you've got to socialize in the dating game, no way around that. Try practicing being more social in general. With practice, you'll get more used to it and hopefully more confident in talking to guys.
2007-01-13 00:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by Underground Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not intentionally that flirty...i don't think...i am sweet, cute, fun, a little(lot)crazy and weird(in good ways ajajjjjajajajajXDXDXD), smart, and like all the guy hobbies...guys love me!!! and since i'm not a slut and refuse to kiss guys unless we r dating etc...well...i can have a lot of guys like me and girls respect me too!!!!:D
my "sister"...she seems to have a new boyfriend every week!!!! she is kinda boring, nice, average intelligence...but she smiles and laughs really nicely and is nice...a nice boring pretty girl...but damn...she doesn't even mean it alot of times...she just naturally seems to hit on guys a lot...real flirt...unfortunately...since she just goes from one guy to the other and can't just sit still with just one...lots of people think she's a slut:S(especially girls!:S)
so...u've gotta be careful...
2007-01-13 00:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys likes flirty girls because they think they can score easily,thats the only reason why they like to be around with flirty girls,they showed less respect to flirty girls
2007-01-13 00:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the situation.
If the guy really likes you, then, you can make it easy form him and flirt.
But if the guy doesn't really like you, then of course we don't want you to flirt.
2007-01-13 00:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by You may be right 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do they ever] they love it because it makes them special, guys love to flit jest as much even if they are jest friends with the girl, it, s exsideding and fun, it don,t mean much but it,s a way to tell the girl that they like them a lot . but it doesn,t all ways me they love them, it,s jest that they are true friends, unless they kiss on the lips. so yes, yes, yes, almost always,unless they are shy,
2007-01-13 00:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋