help me plz!
2007-01-12 16:06:25 · 14 answers · asked by mikea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
take him to Saudi Arabia
2007-01-12 16:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, as you probably know homosexuals have a real hard time dealing with family about their sexual preference. Just ask him if you two can talk privately and seriously. Don't judge him or call him names because we as human beings aren't perfect at all. If he doesn't want to talk, then let him know whenever he is ready that he can come to you. Don't assume anything just yet because you could be wrong. And don't pressure him because he will push you away and never confide in you. Just give him some time and pray for strength for the both of you because you don't know what kind of outcome you both will have.
2007-01-12 16:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by frakmomma04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think he's gay but he may not agree with you. If he is gay he will tell you when he's ready. Don't pressure him and you'll keep him as a loving brother and that's more important than him admitting to something he's not ready to do.
2007-01-12 16:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by passion for art 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you probably make him feel gay. He doesn't need you to butt in at all unless you just spend some normal, encouraging time with him....leave the gay idea completely out of your interactions with him or you will hurt him. Oh and Pray for him
2007-01-12 16:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by mspriveye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him admit and not hurt his feelings. What if you are wrong? He will resent you. But if you are right, you need to give him time to do it and you must be able to make him feel like he can trust you with it. Otherwise it could be a nasty situation,
2007-01-12 16:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think my best guy friend is gay, also. He's 26 and I feel like he's leading a secret life.
I answered this just so I can easily refer to this question again so I can get some advice, too!
2007-01-12 16:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you mind your own business and stop trying to "make" your brother admit anything?
2007-01-12 16:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gives somes times to your brother. And patient.
2007-01-12 23:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jo-Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him about someone you know who is gay, how you are OK with it, etc... that might make him feel comfortable with confiding in you...
2007-01-12 16:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by Randy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make him admit, until he ready to deal with it him self
but let him know that you love him and that you will be there for
him all ways.but it may be hard for him to really deal with the
pressure and things with coming out. or even admit it himself.
2007-01-12 16:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask him in a slow but straight to the point manner.then if he admits dont tell it directly to your parents.tell him the best thing to do.help him tell your parents about it.
2007-01-12 16:11:04 · answer #11 · answered by vandian 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋