What would a 20-something Lady, see in a 50-something Man? The reason I ask, is that I have had 5 Ladies email me just this week, trying to start up a relationship! Now I am no prize, and very much flattered that they would be interested! However, it does strike me as odd that they would find me attractive from just a photo on myspace, and very little profile info. I haven't had the time to build the site.
Anyone have some serious thoughts on this?
2007-01-12 15:36:45 · 16 answers · asked by Dan821 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be very careful!!!!! there could be many reasons. 1. they want a sugar daddy. 2. they may have there own "daddy issues". 3. a lot of young girls tend to find themselves attracted to men who remind them of their own dad-good or bad. 4. they may be stuck in a hometown rut and be looking for a change of scenery. 5. some just like the idea of a decent man, older they assume more reliable, dependable, honest, trustworthy, settled, mature, wanting to settle down, etc... from some they will just be out for what is in their best interest in this moment. not to say all young girls are like this some just like older men. would this be such an unusual scenario if it was the older guy pursuing the younger ladies...i don't think so lol good luck and screen them well. if you have kids of your own what would you tell them to do?
2007-01-12 15:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by reddawnmt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A couple of thoughts.
Some girls are only looking for security. Some see older men a and they think the man is successful and financial stable, then they are attracted to that. They are basically looking to be financially supported so the don't have to work and still get all the material things they want.
Although, if you are an attractive man, then age doesn't always matter... : )
2007-01-12 15:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by greennchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe money , someone older would have more then someone younger most likey . Or they are just looking for anyone that will fall for them ? I think online is no place to meet someone or start dating someone, you never know what kind of person they could be!! If i were single i wouldn't put my picture or info on any web site to meet people like that !! why not look around locally in your area for a singles place to got to or meet someone through a friend to set up a date? Not online! You never know really what these girls want, and most likely they are emailing other guys on that site too !! Not just you !! Do you want that kind of person??
2007-01-12 15:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by monkeymomma46 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women like men who are older because they tend to have more experience and also are more serious with their relationships. A 20year old woman going out with a 20man is most likely to not have a serious relationship... I'm not saying never but its not likely. Also, I'd hate to say this, but does it mention money on your myspace profile? And if so does it mention that you have alot of it? If not then its probably my other reason. Well good luck with those women and have fun... just don't use them. Hope I've helped, good luck.
2007-01-12 15:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm 50 and i have to say that women in there 40's and late 30's seem to have a connection with me and i don't know why either....i think some times it's because we can talk to them with out just wanting them for sex ,even though that's what happens 60% of the time :)
2007-01-12 15:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they wont money, Maybe they are just crazy be careful. It takes alkinds to make a world. MY mom was 22 years younger than my dad. They had 8 kids. Stayed together til death did them part. My mom after that would not even think of another man. She loved my dad. and the story's goes on and on. Just be careful most of the time dont work.
2007-01-12 15:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by bittywrap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i have a thought...people on myspace are weird! Some people want attention out there... and they'll do anything to get it... The girls probably like you as well because you are older..so that means your prob more experiences and mature. Who knows, I'd get off myspace..too many weirdos!
2007-01-12 15:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mainly its the mature level older men r on. that makes us attracted. but it could b a number of things. Older men have already been through alot, they know what they want in life. thats another reason. know yes, some women do go after older men cus of money. but let me tell u NOT ALL DO!
2007-01-12 15:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by thatsspoiledangel2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they thnk u have plenty of money
by the way u r 50 why do u set on the net and make a profile if u dont want them to send u daaaa
2007-01-12 15:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by aha i wanna know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skeptical: Father figure will take care of girl
Optimist: I have always known a lot of girls who dated older men in eastern Europe. Its just the way it is!
2007-01-12 15:41:24 · answer #10 · answered by beach chatta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋