Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

Should i talk to them? will it make me heal if i do?
i am in the school paper, and im the editor in chief, for about 7 months i had been close to this people, and i even called them friends, but they betrayed me, by leaving me in a sticky situation and always contradicting my ideas, and making me unsure of my own talent, the paper became popular in school, but i resigned as the editor cause i could no longer take how this people whom i called friends keep putting my self esteem down.
now they want to talk to me,after i have ignored them, they realize now that they cant do any better without my ideas, but i feel like they will just use me, and that i can no longer keep the relationship back, the trust has been lost, i think i should just forget them, and forget that i once had been a part of that group, and just find myself and join with others who see and appreciate my talents. should i still talk to them?or just let it pass and let it go.move on to another life's journey

2007-01-12 15:19:57 · 6 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

there's this guy that i really like. we seldom see each other because of our busy schedules and we live so far away but we do text for hours sometimes. and when we do see each other, we always have fun. sometimes we just have conversations but sometimes we're flirty with each other. we have an endearment name for each other. we give each other text kisses but we've kissed for real before. he shares his problems with me. he tells me anyone would be lucky to have me. he told my friend that he liked me. the clincher... he has a girlfriend and they've been together for a long time. so... what's he up to?

2007-01-12 15:19:25 · 18 answers · asked by Gel G 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friend was canned tonight and I feel so bad for her...they were really mean about it too...what can I do to cheer her up? chocolate? flowers? just get her out of the house? she has 3 kids so that will be tough but can be done...she lives 3 hours away and I'm considering driving up there in the morning...??

2007-01-12 15:19:06 · 2 answers · asked by pursuit_of_happyness 3 in Friends

2007-01-12 15:18:20 · 8 answers · asked by Krysta 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a very outgoing person and in college and when I was a freshman I made a lot of friends since I lived close to a lot. However, I am an extreme perfectionist and have learned to be very critical of myself and can read people easily and see through their intentions (my dad made me this way unfortunately, long story). I seem to have a lot of friends, but no TRUE friends or ones I can tell anything to or "best friend" type. I don't know why. I think I am sort of a homebody and sometimes have social anxiety if I don't know anyone. I know it's easy to say well just go out there and make friends, but even if I go out and make friends it seems so many girls these days are shallow, fake, backstabbing, liars, etc etc etc. All the friends I made at college soon led to be one of those. Also, most people out there already have several best friends so I can't just enter into that and suddenly be their best friend...I don't know its just overwhelming I worry I will have no bridesmaids hah

2007-01-12 15:17:58 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah 4 in Friends

will you flirt with another girl to find out if we like you.

2007-01-12 15:17:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i do

2007-01-12 15:16:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so my ex and i ended our relationship two months ago. because of recent events, i decided that i could not remain friends/in contact with him. however, we share many of the same aquaintances. but since the end of our relationship, he's taken it upon himself to hang out with our shared friends. this is fine since i shouldn't have any control over who they hang out with but what bothers me is that he'll ask them if i'm dating anyone and tell them different parts about his NEW relationship with his new gf. he's done this with more than one friend. he'll call them up and ask to go out for coffee and then they talk about me and he'll tell them about his gf fully knowing that they'll probably tell me. one of my friends asked him about him knowing they'll me about all of this and according to her, he just shrugs. most people have been telling me that it's probably coming out of being naive but i think it's more. i feel that he's trying to hurt me as much as he says i hurt him. thoughts?

2007-01-12 15:16:13 · 3 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

i try so hard to impress whoever && nothing ever works.
i hate it. All i get is knocked down. im so sick of being lonely. all i get are the ugly guys, or 40 year old men[nasty concidering im 16],mexicans[no affence] or just guys im not into...everyone now and again i get a guy thats worth my while but my longest relationships only lasted 6months. I wish i could be happy. how the heck do i get a boyfrined i like anyway..

2007-01-12 15:16:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was dating this guy that i meet in this teen chat room and after i dumped him he told me he had problems and was suicidle i dont think he is going 2 do anything but he knows wat skool i go 2 and might come and find me even though we live a couple of states apart wat should i do

2007-01-12 15:14:52 · 13 answers · asked by jessica p 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok heres the deal was with my ex for nearly 4yrs and split up about 2.5yrs ago we have kept in contact via sms phone and e-mail msn etc but not seen each other in person as he lives 2hrs away. We are still good friends but i am scared that if i do invite him i will get told off by friends and family and also that i will still feel something for him when i see him again...Any advice would be good.

2007-01-12 15:14:34 · 7 answers · asked by wilo_chick 4 in Friends

About a year and a half ago I answered the question "does love at first sight actually exist?" I met someone and without ever speaking a word just fell in love. I knew the first time looking into her eyes she was the one. There were butterflies in my stomach and this warm feeling of joy and comfort that overwhelmed me. I just knew we were destined to be with each other. We started dating then stopped after about a month. Kept in touch (and still do), then started dating again about 7 months later. Was dating for about two months then stopped again. Since then we still talk, hang every now and then but yet she won't return calls, e-mails, or texts. Well actually she will but only now and then. And as soon as I start thinking about moving on she finds a way to stay right in front of me, like a sign saying to "hold on, be patient". Should I hold on? Should I just let it go? I’m tired of being confused. She says she loves me very much, but why would she do this?

2007-01-12 15:11:23 · 34 answers · asked by dizzy721 1 in Singles & Dating

I left the marriage last year and he promised it would be better and we would go to counseling etc, etc... Then 1 year later things were just as bad if not worse b/c he did not change and I was begining to turn into a person i did not like (mirror image of him.. cold hearted, not caring, avoiding eachother etc.) I got to the point where enough is enough and I did what I think is right for everybody and left. Now he calls and emails that we are meant for eachother and we're going to marriage counceling and we're gonna grow old together. oh yeah we never made it to counceling the 1st time b/c "I'm me and i'm not changing for anybody, dont like it too bad." I know in my heart that i love him but i also know that this is an act to get me back then things will get back to where they were. how should i handle getting that point across? i dont want him to hate me or talk bad about me b/c we have a child and i think we need to have a good parenting relationship.

2007-01-12 15:10:54 · 20 answers · asked by Miranda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am in the school paper, and im the editor in chief, for about 7 months i had been close to this people, and i even called them friends, but they betrayed me, by leaving me in a sticky situation and always contradicting my ideas, and making me unsure of my own talent, the paper became popular in school, but i resigned as the editor cause i could no longer take how this people whom i called friends keep putting my self esteem down.
now they want to talk to me,after i have ignored them, they realize now that they cant do any better without my ideas, but i feel like they will just use me, and that i can no longer keep the relationship back, the trust has been lost, i think i should just forget them, and forget that i once had been a part of that group, and just find myself and join with others who see and appreciate my talents. should i still talk to them?or just let it pass and let it go.move on to another life's journey

2007-01-12 15:10:51 · 4 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Friends

its so true.i could NOT agree more. its a phrase i will never forget.
so many people will say i am too young to even think about love at the age 13, but i really couldn't care less. because i myself have experienced the feeling love. it all began last year..i was on the field trip for my school band/chorus in june. and on the bus were a few 6th graders including me(who were in upper band/chorus), 7th graders, and 8th graders.luckily, i had the cute 8th grader i was crushing on on my bus!! :D lol so i was really glad and then as i sit, i see him purposely making up an excuse to sit by me..i think he really did notice me..so i got really excited..and he began talking to me and he eventually became my BEST friend by the end of the day! i really really really liked him..sooo much
and then during the summer..thats when the feeling LOVE came.
it really wasn't puppy love.because i cried over him.
because he was 2 years older than me. he was going to high school next year and i still <3him

2007-01-12 15:10:16 · 20 answers · asked by lala 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Friend's Husband is into vulgar cyber sex. Just 5 month marriage (a long distance overseas) and he is asking local females to meet for sex. Cyber sex cheating or virtual fantasy? Dump him or give benefit of doubt?

2007-01-12 15:09:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm talking about masturbation. A friend of mine and I were talking about another woman we know. She said she does it everyday, we both thought that was excessive. I said about twice a week, she thought that was excessive. She says only once in a blue moon, I think that isn't enough. What's the majority think????

2007-01-12 15:09:52 · 11 answers · asked by hthr_1974 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 15:08:51 · 13 answers · asked by raka1027 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mother-In-Law just died suddenly after 5 weeks of being diagnosed with cancer. My wife, her sister and father spent all the time at the hospital. They didn't rotate and didn't come home for a week or more at a time.

My wife completely kept me out of loop and relied on sister and father for emotional support. The only way I knew what was going on was when she sent emails everyone else explaining what was going on. She totally froze me out & I couldn't be there for her.

I only saw Mother In Law twice in last 12 days of her life. I was lucky to see her day before she slipped into coma.

Married almost 2 decades. I was here for her, but she decided not to lean on me as a wife and husband should. Now wife is leaving for week vacation with kids and father in law. I'm not invited.

I don't think she needs me, although she thinks she does. I was thinking of waiting a year before I ask for separation. We have 2 kids in grade school. They say a crisis reveals true character.

2007-01-12 15:08:23 · 20 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

We constantly email and talk a whole bunch in it. When I'm down he makes me laugh and i love that. But the thing is. A few months back I started noticing hes open more. Did he have a change of heart and does he like me now or what? We didn't talk for months last year and finally at the end of 2006 we started to get closer and emailing more and more. I got feelings for him I don't know if I should tell him. We are only internet friends by the way. And my feelings for him are real. He seems to be more comfortable with me than ever before. And I feel the sameway!

2007-01-12 15:08:21 · 10 answers · asked by Crystal 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies (adults only)?
Would you ever consider taking off your pantyhose, stretching them over a guy's face and rubbing your crotch up and down it?

I saw it in a movie. Does that sound hot at all?

2007-01-12 15:08:18 · 15 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

I always run into that, I feel like I rather stay at apt and sleep rather than go out and get in trouble.

2007-01-12 15:07:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 15:07:22 · 7 answers · asked by andypc14 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do you guys like funny and sporty girls and girls who sometimes like to do what you do like pull ups and and playing mercy...just wondering.lol.thanks.

2007-01-12 15:07:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-12 15:06:47 · 16 answers · asked by sonia r 1 in Family

Do you ever wonder if they arn't unwanted thoughts that you have that are mean about people? Do you ever wonder if you just think them yourself? What if i am?

2007-01-12 15:06:45 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been trying to inquire about the whereabouts of my college friend which I know came to the east coast before. I tried to look into the internet and found many places in New Jersey where the same name is found. However, they say that I need to pay an amount so that they could give me their telephone number. Is there a place where I can get their phone number without paying the said fee so that I can find out if she's my long lost friend or not?

2007-01-12 15:06:05 · 3 answers · asked by nela 1 in Friends

i lost my father 5 years ago it will be 6 years on march 10th...well I have a 1 year old baby boy and lately i have been really depressed that my child will never know his grampa sometimes i wish i never had him because of this reason...is it wrong to feel this way?. I do love my son. i have had help before over my fathers death and i was on prozacts but i stopped taking them cause my doctor passed away and i don't have a therapist anymore. Should i take my son to his grave site??...it is rite to be sad after all these years? I guess it's so hard for me cause he died in the house we were living in, in front of my sister, mom and I...my mom is still there but i had to move in with my other sister cause i couldn't stand being there and i hardly go back and visit, my mom visits me. I loved my father very much and i know he would of murdered me if he was alive and found out i had a baby at 18 and is living with the father...he was protective

Sorry so many questions and being so long

2007-01-12 15:05:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok she is this girl from work.. And when she first started my friends, who are both girls tried really hard to get us together, but she was already in a relationship. But they asked me if i thought she was cute and i said yeah, so then they went and told her. and ever since she has been Realllllllllllly flirty.
But she recently has broken up with that boyfriend:
And this is what she does:
she calls me things like honey, sweetie, boyfriend, sexy -- things like that.
She says im really hot.
and touches me a lot like on my stomach and my arm and torso.

But the thing is i herd her talking to another co worker one day and she was telling her how she is talking to this other guy and how she goes on dates with him sometimes.

And today -- i was standing talking to my friend, and she snuck up behind me and i didn't know she was behind me, but she made motions to my friend and got her to say "ask him what he thinks about me" but i saw her stairing into space then ask this random

2007-01-12 15:05:19 · 11 answers · asked by Fernesta 1 in Singles & Dating

I told Sex befor marrage normal in tis cuntery, but sum say brite shud not see grom on marage day before ceremony, How they haf sex if not each other see, wear mask, cut hole in dore, it maek no sens.

2007-01-12 15:04:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings