so my ex and i ended our relationship two months ago. because of recent events, i decided that i could not remain friends/in contact with him. however, we share many of the same aquaintances. but since the end of our relationship, he's taken it upon himself to hang out with our shared friends. this is fine since i shouldn't have any control over who they hang out with but what bothers me is that he'll ask them if i'm dating anyone and tell them different parts about his NEW relationship with his new gf. he's done this with more than one friend. he'll call them up and ask to go out for coffee and then they talk about me and he'll tell them about his gf fully knowing that they'll probably tell me. one of my friends asked him about him knowing they'll me about all of this and according to her, he just shrugs. most people have been telling me that it's probably coming out of being naive but i think it's more. i feel that he's trying to hurt me as much as he says i hurt him. thoughts?
2007-01-12 15:16:13 · 3 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and then he also discussed with them that he wanted to go back out with me but after i said a nasty thing about one of his friends that i disliked he decided not to. then he talked about if he wasn't with his gf, then he would consider trying to start a relationship if we were still talking.
i feel if i hurt him so bad, why is he still saying that stuff?
2007-01-12 15:18:22 · update #1
You lost me here...Move on
2007-01-12 15:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey...
my ex...when i was WITH HIM...he would talk to our shared friends thinking that i didn't understand him(language barrier...spanish...english)...and i did...and he would say stuff like "yeah...i used to have a girlfriend there and there and blah and my ex was so blah blah etc" or...if i wore a skirt..."oh...i just wanna go at her...she is so freakin hott!!!" etc...well...he did all this **** to me and then he left me and stopped talking to me...point is...he sux!!! as in...we had so mux in common...but now we aren't even friends!!!:S:(...
point is...do u want revenge?...and also...if u do...i did one...check out my questions...u'll learn about my ex and about the underwear...and about what i am gonna do...ok
and...him being such a jerk is like damn...but what sux more is having him taking the shared friends...he did that to me!!!!!!!!!!:(i have to be sneaky for him not to dive in with them too!!!
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ok
xao:)
2007-01-12 23:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much he said she said....you broke up....forget the whole thing and move on
2007-01-12 23:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by aprilfools1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋