Should i talk to them? will it make me heal if i do?
i am in the school paper, and im the editor in chief, for about 7 months i had been close to this people, and i even called them friends, but they betrayed me, by leaving me in a sticky situation and always contradicting my ideas, and making me unsure of my own talent, the paper became popular in school, but i resigned as the editor cause i could no longer take how this people whom i called friends keep putting my self esteem down.
now they want to talk to me,after i have ignored them, they realize now that they cant do any better without my ideas, but i feel like they will just use me, and that i can no longer keep the relationship back, the trust has been lost, i think i should just forget them, and forget that i once had been a part of that group, and just find myself and join with others who see and appreciate my talents. should i still talk to them?or just let it pass and let it go.move on to another life's journey
2007-01-12 15:19:57 · 6 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe you can be friendly, but keep your distance...to protect yourself. Have you ever heard the saying, "screw me once, shame on you...screw me twice, shame on me!!"
You can be the bigger person, and be civil to them, even friendly, but don't let them close enough again to get gutted by them.
Good luck!
2007-01-12 15:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by sacanda_trina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you should talk to them. tell them how you feel.
they will never know your side or how you feel about them if you will continue ignoring them. the problem cannot be resolve.
i think the key here is a proper communication.
set aside first your pride and let your relationship with them back.
I think everybody deserves a second chance.
you just have to tell them what you really feel about them---the betrayal, putting your self-esteem down and contradicting your ideas.
let your feelings be open..
FORGIVING IS FREEING YOURSELF FROM ANY ANXIETY.
goodluck!
2007-01-12 23:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by issa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use your judgment. if you feel that you can still get along with these people then go ahead. but like one of the other answers says, keep your distance. if they want to "repair" the relationship let them know how they made you feel before so they know not to do it again. good luck.
2007-01-12 23:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by ImmaDiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would just leave them be. I would ignore them and not get too personal. I try not to get too personal with anyone, and plus I am just for business
2007-01-12 23:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by Queen B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and talk to them and vent your grievances, but I do think it is time for you to move on away from this petty crowd.
2007-01-12 23:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on....you've lost nothing and you might gain a lot...
2007-01-12 23:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋