its so true.i could NOT agree more. its a phrase i will never forget.
so many people will say i am too young to even think about love at the age 13, but i really couldn't care less. because i myself have experienced the feeling love. it all began last year..i was on the field trip for my school band/chorus in june. and on the bus were a few 6th graders including me(who were in upper band/chorus), 7th graders, and 8th graders.luckily, i had the cute 8th grader i was crushing on on my bus!! :D lol so i was really glad and then as i sit, i see him purposely making up an excuse to sit by me..i think he really did notice me..so i got really excited..and he began talking to me and he eventually became my BEST friend by the end of the day! i really really really liked him..sooo much
and then during the summer..thats when the feeling LOVE came.
it really wasn't puppy love.because i cried over him.
because he was 2 years older than me. he was going to high school next year and i still <3him
2007-01-12 15:10:16 · 20 answers · asked by lala 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what should i do?
i can never forget him
i really can't
i didn't see looks in him
i saw kindness
he is the sweetest guy i've ever met
on a rainy night he held his umbrella for his gal friends and not for himself!
how sweet for a GUY is that? lol <3
2007-01-12 15:12:27 · update #1
what you felt could have been loved. i loved this classmate of mine when i was still 8 years old until i was 18 years old, only now that i realize that he was not worth it, oh yes i cried for him and he made me feel so sad, hopeless and worthless and that was so unfair, 13 youre right youre still young , what you felt could have been love, but its not the end, its not even the beginning, its just a phase in your life, you might think right now and believe that he was the one for you and that it was meant to be, but believe me when i say its not him, he is just someone you must meet so that you could have a glimpse of what the world really is, you still have to learn more about life
of course you will never forget him you might even cry about it once in a while, the pain will stay quite a bit longer, but when you meet the man who is really right for you, you will still remember that 8th grader" you'll remember the boy, but you wont remember the feeling anymore, cry about it right now,then move on , you deserve life and happiness and that happiness would not be found in him- learn to love yourself first
2007-01-12 15:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him how you feel But don't tell him you love him just yet. High school is a different place. He will find girls that he has never seen before. He wont want to have a girlfriend that goes to the junior high and in the seventh grade. I am not trying to break your heart but its true, I have been there and done that. But you should either cal him or write him and tell him how you feel. you will feel a lot better if you do and don't ever let yourself think that hes the only guy for you. Remember this every date is a potential mate.
2007-01-12 15:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand you...Lots and lots of people try and tell you that its puppy love...not real feelings...or lust. I have been with my b/f for 9 years already and we met in high school..like grade 8-9 and we are still together. I have cried over him many times...So yes I am living proof that this just aint a puppy love going on. Good luck..if the feeling are strong don't give up:)
2007-01-12 15:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to forget him, hon. It's okay, though. I fell in love for the first time at fourteen, and I will never forget him, either. I'm thirty, now.
My first love raked me over the coals. It took me about five years to heal from that, but seriously? You WILL love someone again. It's going to take some time, but I promise you that you will. You will probably get hurt again, too, but the second time takes about a year as opposed to five...
Don't worry, hon. If it's any consolation, you're not the only one who's loved and lost at your age.
Good luck to you, honey... I hope that your heart mends soon.
2007-01-12 15:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can talk to him and see if there is a way you guys could stay in touch when he goes to high school because he is a sweet guy and who knows maybe if you guys can continue being friends it could always turn into more you never know
2007-01-12 15:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well really, its not that your too young to be in love but just trust me give it some time, youll meet another guy that when youll fall in love with him you will understand that the other guy was just a youngs girl crush.
you will be remambering him (and the whole situation with a warm smile on your face and a pleasent feeling in your heart)
2007-01-12 15:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by kacak15348 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya, you are far too young to be thinking about boys, you are 13 you've got you're whole life ahead of you. I know you think i sound like your mam but i reakky mean it. You need to live a little babes!
2007-01-12 15:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by lasticlegs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg me 2 i feel the same way about the guy i love but i have like this guy ever since (age 3) just ask him out our just keep in touch good luck :)girl
2007-01-12 15:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by ~sharmo~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's happened to me. I still can't forget my High School Sweetheart. When you really love someone and loose them, it's hard to forget. Time will heal.
2007-01-12 15:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anton Mathew 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should try filling up your schedule more, the more you have to do, the less you'll be able to think about him...and eventually ( you won't forget him ) you'll be at peace with the situation.
2007-01-12 15:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋