there's this guy that i really like. we seldom see each other because of our busy schedules and we live so far away but we do text for hours sometimes. and when we do see each other, we always have fun. sometimes we just have conversations but sometimes we're flirty with each other. we have an endearment name for each other. we give each other text kisses but we've kissed for real before. he shares his problems with me. he tells me anyone would be lucky to have me. he told my friend that he liked me. the clincher... he has a girlfriend and they've been together for a long time. so... what's he up to?
2007-01-12 15:19:25 · 18 answers · asked by Gel G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you have a very special friendship and maybe that is what he sees it as...a friendship. What do you see is as, or what do you want it to be? Maybe that is a question that you should ask yourself (and depending on the answer) a question you should ask him too. It doesn't sound like he is playing...he may just be undecided and he needs your honesty to help him move forward.
Good Luck!
2007-01-12 15:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jovonni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the clincher? the clincher is he a playa - if he does it to her he will do it to you if he liked you soooo much he would end the other relationship - its obvious he likes his cake and he eats it too. You deserve better than a 2 timing guy . And if you don't consider this cheating think about how you would if you were his girlfriend and he was talking to another chickee and stuff like this
2007-01-12 23:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are doing is wrong, texting each other for hours everyday and he already has a girlfriend, sending him kisses on text, that is wrong on both of your parts. Obviously he likes his girlfriend since he has not left her yet. Keep dreaming though.
2007-01-12 23:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by MG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want the truth-you probably already know your answer to your question. Yes, this guy probably does like you-but is def. a player of some sort. Perhaps he wants to keep you in his life "just in case". My best advice is to cool things with him and find someone who is not attached.
Personally-I would not trust this guy-even if he did break up with his girl-he'd do the same to you once another girl came along.
2007-01-12 23:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by librastar927 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awe, come on - you know darn right well that what he is doing to his girlfriend he will one day do to you. Put yourself in the girlfriends shoes - because if you two keep this nonsense going that is where you will end up!!!
2007-01-12 23:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by scottyusa1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad taking chances.
Maybe his relationship isn't like it was at the first time with this girl.
Keep in touch with him... don't just stop, because of his girlfriend.
Best of Luck
2007-01-12 23:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by latinapr1229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes useing you
2007-01-12 23:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by bstcrpntr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing you, if he was even true to his word he would break up with his girlfriend, youre a game to him a dessert, not really the main dish, and as for me i dont even want that status,move on ,be with someone who is honest and loyal to you, you are worth more than that, dont let him fool you with his sweet words!!!!!all men can fake that
2007-01-12 23:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and why did u guys share a kiss if he has a girlfriend? wut kind of kiss wuz it? a friendly one? a kiss like i m so glad i have u as a friend or i want to be more than friends? he sounds like a player...or maybe just is glad to have u as a friend...
2007-01-12 23:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by Legant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u and his girl are on the same lever. who knows he might leave his girl for u! just don't tell his girl what is happeneing between u 2. so just wait. time will tell!! and good luck!!!
2007-01-12 23:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋