I've read alot about relationships and there seems to be a common theme among many of them about making your ex jealous of you so that they'll want you. However, this is very manipulative and in my book just plain stupid and unloving. If you really fall in love with someone else that's one thing, but to play with two people's emotions in this way, just seems like the high-school tactic, and very immature, AND THIS CRAP is supposedly written by professional counselours, showing me just how mature they truly are in their own twisted schemes on life. I have yet to found a tactic that works without being manipulative or harmful to anyone in any way. I am searching for a way I can show my love to my ex in a way that she appreciates, without masquerading that I am okay without her if I am not, without bringing in someone else to dump just to win my ex back, without lying in any fashion, and without hurting her feelings any more than I have already done.
2007-01-12 15:48:51 · 12 answers · asked by The Lonely Skywolf 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First let me say i agree with you in every way, Anyway,if you love her then just tell her that you love her so much and that you font want to lose her and that you cant live without her, I meant the worst that could happen is that she could tell you tat she wants to be your friend, Look i know you want more than a friendship but d she says she doesn't want a relationship right now then let that be it. I would Rather have her as my friend then nothing at all. If you really love her then keep fighting for her, just stick to what you believe. If she really loves you then she will see how sincere you are then maybe i am not going to say that is going to work for sure because you never know she could have moved on by now and not what you but i pretty sure that is not going to happen. if you really love her which it sound like you really do then tell her. Don't let her get away without letting her know you love her as much as you do. if she dosen't want a relationship with you then you can say at least you tried
2007-01-12 16:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I guess it kind of depends on how you broke up. if it was a mutual break up then you can forget about it because she'll probably just think that there wasn't something clicking anyways and neither one of you could feel the chemistry. so just forget it. If she broke up with you once again you're toast! but if you broke up with her. surprise her do something special for her... like give her hints that lead he to this amazing spot under the stars surrounded by candles. Women like when you take an extra amount of time to apologize. so at that point I would say you were sorry and that you almost let the most perfect girl slip through your life... but if she is a very understanding person just go to her and talk to her about it. not like a needy puppy but... I don't know... girls like it when men are willing to confront problems in a relationship and are willing to work them out. anyways sorry about the novel but I hope it helps... if not you seem bright I bet you'll figure something out.
2007-01-12 16:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's going to play the latest video games, yet maximum of them will paintings slow on intense settings. Why? Celeron isn't the gaming cpu sequence. Get an i3,i5 intel cpu, or a Phenom quad middle from AMD.
2016-10-19 22:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM SO WITH YOU. I dont know why i can't say it in the way you can, but I know these little high school games are retarted. it can't be love when you want to hurt someone's feelings. and it think any girl that sees now mature you are by doing this, has every reason to go back with you!!
GO FOR IT! =D
2007-01-12 15:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is part of the reason that relationships fail why bother with games and deception
Just be OPEN AND HONEST, and be ready to back it up.
2007-01-12 15:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a copy of what you have wrote here and if she has any love for you then you should be able to win her back. Good Luck.
2007-01-12 15:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her honestly how you feel, women are pretty simple, thats all it takes
2007-01-12 15:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by aprilfools1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty is the opposite of highschool games. so whatever you do must involve total honesty
2007-01-12 16:26:43 · answer #8 · answered by Zachary H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way is to be honest with her and let her know how you feel
and how you really want to be with her, that all you do, then
go from t here.
2007-01-12 15:58:19 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her exactly what you said... just be open and honest....tell her you don't want to play games but this is how you feel......
2007-01-12 15:53:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋