Married, seeking discreet married partner--not me but what would you do if someone approached you online for this sort of thing? I am not sure what to think..the whole idea seems crazy...I want to think the best of people, but he seems to have his own agenda and nice isn't on the list.
2007-01-12 15:42:14 · 17 answers · asked by Missy Lyons 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does the wife know ? If not she should !
2007-01-12 15:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by jenny 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, there are millions of different characters out there, especially online. Everyone has different agendas and whether its nice or not, heaven knows.
For your question about wanting to fool around and openly admits he is married; well, all I can say is that he's honest and obviously he's looking for people with the same agendas and not waste time...
Being truthfully is better than fooling around and lying about his maritial status and the other party finding out in the later part of the relationship. But this could also be a trick, in the sense they can tell the other party that I never lied to you, I am truthful to you about my status and you cant blame me for anything... as I wont give you my responsibilities.
I wouldnt say that being married and fooling around is a nice thing but then again, its his agenda and he should know how it would feel if his wife is doing the same thing behind his back and imagine if he's chatting online (unknowingly) with his wife. Most importantly, for these type of people, they must be prepared to face their own consequences, that is losing their family and trust from their love ones...
2007-01-12 16:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive actually had that happen to me a couple of times, and I've ripped them a new azz each time.. i have enough respect for myself, respect for not only my own wedding vows, but others wedding vows, that i'd never do such a thing, i dont care how sweet, how rich, how cute ,etc they are, if a man or woman is married and willing to cheat on their spouse, what makes Anyone think they can be so special that the person wouldnt eventually cheat on them?????
2007-01-12 15:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hello
The man is married.I would have told him.I do not go out with married men.I am not interested in any relationship involving a married man.
I would have thought.He either has an open marriage(something I am not into) or he is not open about his extramarital affairs.When it comes to his wife.(again something i am not into)
I would have told this person.I am not interested in anything you have to offer now or ever.Then I would have clicked out of the conversation.Blocked this person from being able to contact me again.
2007-01-12 16:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by noga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's desperate for a Mistress is ALL!
I know a married man who said if he dated someone, his Wife wouldn't care!
YES, it's crazy! These kind are just looking for someone on the side because they are missing something in their current marriage relationship.
These men are clearly stupid!
2007-01-12 15:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men are pigs anyway but any woman who has sex with a married man is no good.
2007-01-12 16:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him the only part I read was "Fool" and that sends me running the other way as far away from him as I can. And I would.
2007-01-12 16:39:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's there to think about. He's telling you that he's married and cheats on his wife. Whoever takes him up on it knows what their getting their self into.
2007-01-12 16:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by mia w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? It easy, no complications, no committment necessary. You are right, it is crazy but lots of people are ready and willing. Sick, huh? These people are spineless, have no core to them, it's all about sex...free and uncomplicated.
2007-01-16 15:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats why they call it fooling around. Its very sad. I would stay away from this one. He's the fool.
2007-01-12 15:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by Debcee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the married men on here are here for EXACTLY that reason. I'd hit the ignore button & go on with my life. all they spell is trouble.
2007-01-12 15:47:38 · answer #11 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋