my girlfriend and her sister ..i think are way to loose, my girlfriends sister thinks its ok to have sex with as many people as she can call friends,she claims that she knows these people and because they were or still are friends that she isn't a ho, my girlfriend seems to have the same thoughts..claming all the guys she slept with were friends and even claims most were in a relationship with her even if it lasted only a couple of days to a couple of weeks...am i fooling myself thinking i realy have a good woman whom i can respect or should i view this for what its worth?
2007-01-12 15:23:15 · 24 answers · asked by david r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm..if shes typical..then im not....that sounds like a ho to me...
2007-01-12 15:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by mizzms 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having sex for the sake of having sex isn't healthy. STD's, HIV and very low self respect are on the horizon....
I don't think you're a fool yet, but I'd run away fast, before I become one and get something I didn't need...( a disease )
Find someone who actually has a life....and then share it with her. (having sex all the time is not a life, it's an addiction or a cry for help/love...something they are never going to find if they keep up what they're doing)
2007-01-12 23:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um yeah based on what i do know i don't think that's a good idea. she might be a great person and all, but as far as sexually, you don't need to put yourself at that kind of risk.
Remember if you have unprotected sex with her, it's just like you had sex with everyone unprotected she's had sex with and so on. If you want to keep her your girl, until you get a blood test, wrap it up.
2007-01-12 23:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by myfianceisamonkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a HO- she got to GO!
Seriously, if you think that way about her now- you will never have the respect for her. Time to move on.
2007-01-12 23:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy, the double standard again... i bet if it were a guy, nobody would even be questioning it...besides, you didn't even really mention how many people she's been with. some people think 5 is a lot of partners, others think a lot starts at 20
2007-01-12 23:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by Tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now thats just not "Classy". Just flow along with the relationship, but don't get too serious. Cause at the end of the day, it's you being hurt.
2007-01-12 23:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by Pa'C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there goes the morals and values.
But if you have morals and values i would suggest to let her go and find someone you understand and totally is the way you would like to be. And if you did have sex with her watch out and get yourself checked.
2007-01-12 23:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...be honest to your self. Do you realize what you just wrote?
What do YOU think about that? How long before she sleeps with another FRIEND. People just don't go around having sex with every person in their lifes, just for the heck of it.
R-E-S-P-E-C-T???
Be good to your self...
2007-01-12 23:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by zaphiradragon77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as she is faithful to you and you all have a good relationship, it is irrelevant. alot of girls make of for a lack of affection by sleeping around. its good to know she wasn't getting it on with random strangers and as long as she is in a comitted relationship with you, that makes her your girlfriend not a ho
2007-01-12 23:29:22 · answer #9 · answered by aprilfools1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is simply a whore. Sorry to break it to you. That's not ladylike to have sex with lots of people. I know you don't want a vagina that every penis has been in.
2007-01-12 23:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by TrayLuvsJay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
View it for what it's worth and make an appointment to be tested for STDs!
2007-01-12 23:26:41 · answer #11 · answered by lucy7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋