That my crush might be gay? I heard this from a friend of his. I can't ask him about it or he will wonder why I'm asking. he was previously married for 12 years or so. I'm in love with him. what should i do?
2007-01-12 15:28:43 · 16 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it was a female friend. She has her own bf and she wouldnt make this up to hurt me
2007-01-12 15:32:36 · update #1
Just wait and see....let him tell you if he is gay....dont completely disregard your friend.....because most "im just kidding" phrases are 8/10 to be true......Just follow your heart and make the right decision....Good luck!!
2007-01-12 15:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know answers to your questions then it is better find out from the friend or the guy you are in love with. Whether there is truth or not that is for you to find out. Sometimes it is better to have a person ask you a question then get a funny look from you. Whatever the case might be or whatever you decided, somehow and someway it will eventually get out no matter who asks the questions and who it is from. You will be glad tht you did ask once you do, then you won't have to worry anymore. Although remember your crush is just a crush so don't expect too much right now.
2007-01-12 23:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep going the way things are. If he is gay, you'll know soon enough. I have heard gay guys make wonderful friends. Wish I knew a few.
2007-01-12 23:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because he was married does not mean he is not gay now. If he is a friend, ask him. If you really want to know, that is.
2007-01-12 23:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by Tracey LA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and find out for yourself. You cant continue living in the darkness, you need to find out so u can know in which direction to move. If he is gay u forget about him, if he's not then find out if he feels the same way and if two have a chance together. Best of luck!!!
2007-01-12 23:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by Krishy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont trust what a guy says. ever think that the friend who told you this might like you and is trying to make you not like the previously married?
2007-01-12 23:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by Curly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up...be an adult and ask...thats the only way you're going to know...and being married doesn't mean you are or aren't gay.
Let him wonder why you're asking, it's a simple question. I asked my husband before we were married if he was gay. He's not...but living near S.F. CA you couldn't tell sometimes....
2007-01-12 23:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him if he is dating anyone. If he says yes, say who? If he says why, say because you want to ask him to a movie but not if it will interfere with any relationship he has. Maybe then (if he is gay) he will just tell you. Still you shouldn't lose face because all you did was ask him to a movie.
2007-01-12 23:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by martinmagini 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, dilemma ...... Don't worry your not really in love you just think you are.... and if he is then there is really nothing you can do about it.
You could find out if this is true though. Maybe you could ask him about his marriage and why it ended if you're that close to him.
2007-01-12 23:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by Other sheep 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk to his family and see if he really is Gay. It might be a rumor.
2007-01-12 23:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋