Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

Ok, so here's the situation. Went out with this guy, who lives on the other side of the country, but we broke up because he "wasn't ready for a relationship". This was about 7 months ago! But he keeps texting and emailing me to say how much he misses me....and i still really like him. But i don't know for sure if he still likes me. So, do i tell him how i feel or not? Or should we just remain friends?!

2007-01-11 06:53:11 · 1 answers · asked by Hippycat 1 in Singles & Dating

he does'nt want to have sex at all

2007-01-11 06:52:57 · 34 answers · asked by Janie R 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to this guy online he seemed so sweet in the begining. We talked online for about 2 weeks. He told me he is still having to deal with his ex with whom he broke up with 2 years ago. There in some kind of lawsuit, long story. Anyway I offerd to give him my number twice he would never give me a direct answer. I figured he must be playing games with me. Because he would go 2 days without emailing or iming. So almost a week has passed by now and I just blew him off. I was not going to sit around and wait form him. Besides I think he still has feeling for his ex. Just now he messaged me telling me he has been working and has been sick and he gave me his number. To tell you the truth I have been talking to a new guy. What would you do give the first guy you talk to a second chance or just continue to pursue the other I have just been recently talking to?

2007-01-11 06:52:48 · 21 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 06:52:43 · 22 answers · asked by talofa lava 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why is it a woman always wants the seat put down when its up,but never puts it back up when she's done?

2007-01-11 06:52:06 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-11 06:52:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Later, you told her nicely.."i do not like you embarrassing me in front of people"...she just says.."Oh, with a smile on her face.."...immediately, i got suspicious...would you STILL BE HER FRIEND...i can let her go anytime...just by not returning her calls...we live in different cities... tell me your take on that please...

2007-01-11 06:51:59 · 12 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Friends

without talking to her how can i make hr say man i reely like that guy without talkng to her???

2007-01-11 06:51:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he broke up with me 2 weeks ago. the only convo we had after that was a week ago on aim. but he sounds very cold. so after that i quit talking to him and i make myself invisible. then i noticed once i was invisible he went on line for like 3 minutes and then signed off. when i went back online he would stay for hours. it's kinda akward since neither of us talk to each other. i dont know why he does this. maybe he's waiting for me to talk to him first? since in the past when he broke up with me i always chased him back. but i'm not gonna do that any more. i still hope he'd come back on his own though. he broke up with me b/c he cant blalance everything in his life thus he doesnt want a relationship right now, which i believe him. but now why does he do this? I think he wants me to chase him again but when i talked to him a week ago he was so cold. What should I do to counterplay his game to make him come back on his own?

2007-01-11 06:51:50 · 8 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

I always try to be positive and helpful but sometimes I get the feeling that even those that are close to me are taking my views and feelings for granted. So What do you do when you feel that friends and family are taking advantage of your good nature ? Should I fight fire with fire?

I don't want to be come an A**hole but there comes a point when I just feel that it is the way to be cause people treat me that way.

Close to break point! Any advice...
Thanks

2007-01-11 06:50:57 · 11 answers · asked by flexin4uk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm really bad at flirting, and I sort of like this guy and stuff...I do get his attention, but we seem to just be friends. I don't want to ask him out, because I think that girls asking guys out is wrong. Flirting tips, please?

2007-01-11 06:50:33 · 6 answers · asked by dramaprincess721 1 in Singles & Dating

If a guy shaves his head bald cos he is going bald is he more attractive? If he has a good looking face will he be deemed sexy by women?

2007-01-11 06:50:33 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have guy friends but there is one who is my best friend and has a thing for me.

2007-01-11 06:49:18 · 14 answers · asked by lenate 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been in this relationship for three years and i love him to death but we're growing apart and i don't know what to do. please help!!! the worst part is...we're engaged!!!

2007-01-11 06:49:14 · 10 answers · asked by oNeHoTmOmA2B 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello, I had Norplant (form of birth control) years ago and then had them removed to have my daughter now I would like to have them again, but now they are banned in the U.S. Does anyone know where in Mexico I could go to have them inplanted again.

2007-01-11 06:48:23 · 1 answers · asked by tara_larae_05 1 in Friends

I was working full time...ANYWAY...two months later...she says to be.."YOU HAVE TO MOVE OUT BECAUSE this guy is moving in..."...i said what?...she repeated it...I said.."i just moved in"...and you wanted me to help you out...ANYWAY, later when i moved i cleaned the place...and said ..."You don't realize this now....but quess what..Nicely...YOU HAVE LOST A GOOD FRIEND...i had thought you were a better friend...and now my daughter and i have to find another place...anyway...i moved back home...(the reason i became a single parent is because my husband was in a fatal accident years ago)...WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THAT???

2007-01-11 06:48:22 · 7 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you make of that?

2007-01-11 06:47:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was in a relationship with my Ex girlfriend for a year and a half at first everything was so lovely we had alot in common and we fell in love with each other real hard, but after awhile we started to argue alot over stupid small things that wasn't worth even arguing over, so after a year and a half we broke up but somehow we still remained close and we still remained friends, but that kinda lead to being a little more (if you know what I mean), but we were still never a couple i guess you could say we were friends with benefits, but anyway I love this girl so much I've tried to forget about her and move on but it's hard because I still see her all the time (church) and that makes it hard for the feelings to go away, and to make matters worse her Ex- boyfriend is back in the picture and she's in a relationship with him now, but she still wants to be in my life and wants to call and hang with me, should I fight for her and try and be with her or should I just move on with my life???

2007-01-11 06:47:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The only reason he said this is because he plans on moving for his job...am i crazy for staying with him now...am i even more crazy for thinking to myself that i would actually move to where his job takes him even though it means switching jobs and college? oh, and even though we have only been going out for a few months, we went out about 3 1/2 years ago for a year...Should i follow my heart or my head??

2007-01-11 06:46:56 · 17 answers · asked by cantthinkofauseridsohereitis 3 in Singles & Dating

1. Mindless superstition.
2. Mind-influence.
3. The myth of the female orgasm
4. Stupid gossip
5. The myth of 'rape'
6. No respect for Holy things
8. Women prefer savages
9. Women have double standards
10. Women stink

2007-01-11 06:46:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 06:45:59 · 51 answers · asked by Lashawnda W 1 in Singles & Dating

i am in foster caring and i have a little boy thatdont follow anything we say,he is very angry how can i help him to be a better person?

2007-01-11 06:45:22 · 5 answers · asked by michelle b 1 in Family

Like when you are just hanging out with your guy friends, how do you talk about girls. Or do you even talk about girls that much? Do you just say yeah the're hot and I want to get with her, Or do you talk about if there personality is annoying or good? Explain please.

2007-01-11 06:44:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 06:44:00 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Does it bother guys at all having sex with a female while its that time of the month? Ive never done it but i now feel comfortable within myself to take it that step further!

2007-01-11 06:43:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He is 19 and has been smoking it for a year now, but it is increasing, he gets high every night for 5-6 hours (or 2-3 joints). He is failing at college, were in the same class and he is missing loads of lessons. He told me a while ago he thinks he's addicted, and loads of times hes made resolutions to stop and hasnt. I dont want to sound hypocritical cause i smoke with him sometimes too, but im getting the best grades in the class. Im scared hes going to mess up his future. How can i help him? He is getting more withdrawn and moody, and i miss the happy funny person he used to be. He seems so sad all the time, and we dont talk as much as we used to.

2007-01-11 06:43:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok i used to like this guy but my friend told me that the guy i like thought that i was an ugly a**. and it hurt my feeling of course because i really liked this guy and because he always looked at me and stuff. i dont know to believe him because my ex boyfriend told me that. should i believe him and stop liking him or dont believe him and keep on liking him?

2007-01-11 06:43:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 06:43:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for a little more then a year now. He was my first love, my first every thing. But like most stories I was not his.It happens that his ex and I attend the same school and often see each other on the way to our classes. But have never talked to one another before. But we both have the picture that one hates the other. So a few days ago I just had enough of the built up tinshon between us that I wrote her a note sying that I didn't have a problem with her and I would really enjoy if we could become friends and get to know one another more.
She was more then happy to hear from me and loved the idea of becoming friends. For the past few days we have even past notes about our selves to one another and i even invited her to hang out with my friends and I this weekend.This all sounds so great, but the problem is. I dont understand why I felt or feel the need to Get to know her? Or why I even want to be her friend? Is this wrong? I'm so Lost! Please Help! =(

2007-01-11 06:43:00 · 1 answers · asked by bnrl_shell88 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 06:42:52 · 12 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships