Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

Two people are in love, they shouldn't be because they are both married to other people, but we are talking real life here and these things happen. Right or wrong they have an affair but save your judgement you don't know all the facts (take too long to go into). They stop seeing each other for obvious reasons when the guys wife is diagnosed with cancer but after a few months when she was in remission they occassionally got together for coffee or a walk. They still love each other. Now his wife is dying, nothing can be done. The love between these people grew from a long and close friendship and the guy knows he can talk to her about anything and everything and get comfort, advise and understanding. but she knows that the situation is impossible which ever way you look at it. Her heart is breaking. What can she do?
Yes, you've guessed it it is me.

2007-01-11 23:29:17 · 7 answers · asked by ragdoll 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ever since I was 11 or 12 older men have been staring at me and asking me out. I developed really early at the age of 9 and now I'm 16 with a overdeveloped and curvy body. I don't dress slutty or tarty I just dress like a teen girl. It bothers me because I can never really be with anyone my own age and no one believes that I'
m 16.

2007-01-11 23:27:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 16 year old boy n every 1 says i look very innocent...i am 6ft tall n fair but when ppl say this i feel strange.....anyways i dont want any girlfrnds now but i would lik to hav 1 in future ...so plzz tell me if girls lik innoicent looking guys or not....if not what kind of guys do they like??

2007-01-11 23:25:00 · 10 answers · asked by ~lost~ 2 in Singles & Dating

initially I was very nice person for all..people were taking me like role model..but later on because of misconception in mind I have committed many stupidities...not harmful but meaningless.Unknowingly I hurt somebody. Now I have realized my mistakes...even I have apologized for my mistakes. But I don't know whether that person has forgiven me or not.

I am unable to forget those stupidities and always feeling demoralize why I did such??
like..
whether that person has forgiven me or not??I am afraid t ask..

Please give me how to overcome from this problem??

I am feeling demoralize....

2007-01-11 23:20:33 · 5 answers · asked by nbgl 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that there can be a buy out but how can that be regulated and by who? Also, how can a property sale be forced? Any advice or links, etc would be very very appreciated.Thank you.

2007-01-11 23:18:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the girl that i love, seemed to like me back because she wood always talk to me, she wood want to "touch" (not in a wrong way") me, she drew me a picture,....well now, we have a 4 day weekend and she seems to b loosing interest, i mean she doesn't seem to have any secret's about me now & stuff.......so wat shood i do? does she still like me? is this just a rough time? y wood she lose interest?

2007-01-11 23:17:57 · 6 answers · asked by Pretty Boy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 23:15:15 · 13 answers · asked by jillu 1 in Friends

i don t believe whether men cheat more than cos men not always do it with other men. there must be some underlying pschological reasong i guess??

2007-01-11 23:11:04 · 6 answers · asked by parasetamol 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-11 23:10:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i was just looking on the website of a company my friend works for and her name is not on the staff list... also they are advertising for a new position. She hasn't told me that shes left or had to leave but it makes me suspicious, she said she was getting on well there. Any ideas?

2007-01-11 23:06:32 · 10 answers · asked by agent flora 5 in Friends

I am a very light sleeper and whenever I share a bed with my boyfriend I end up being awake all night.

He tries to be considerate and keep still! But even so I still find it impossible to sleep.

This has been very problematic in all my relationships. I have always resorted to sleeping pills but I know this can't be a long-term solution. Any advice?

2007-01-11 23:05:52 · 9 answers · asked by Rosie 3 in Singles & Dating

9 months ago, my husband was caught having an "emotional affair" with a lady that he formely worked with. They became the best of friends, started meeting for lunch, then heavy passionate kissing... no actual intercourse. I think that it would have come to that, but he was caught too soon. The problem is, he never really gave me any details of the affair. He would occaisonally answer a question here or there, but I am still in the dark about so many things. I might have been able to handle that if every couple months, I find out something he has kept from me, or even something that was a total lie about the affair. He say's " I'm done with that, it is behind me, and I don't ever want to talk about it." "let it go". I tell him that he doesn't have the right to make that descision, I am the one that needs the closure. I offered him that if he would just give me 1 hour to ask him questions, I would never mention it again, UNLESS I find out that he lied. HELP!!

2007-01-11 23:05:40 · 14 answers · asked by shedan157 1 in Marriage & Divorce

discovering gals

2007-01-11 23:04:25 · 2 answers · asked by anupwsth 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it really that erotic? We are both very sexy and attractive, and can completely imange it. Is it really worth it?

2007-01-11 23:03:48 · 12 answers · asked by Spencer 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 23:03:34 · 6 answers · asked by Sallia Ereka 2 in Singles & Dating

websites, articles.. anything. may sounds silly but it's a research. thanx

2007-01-11 23:02:29 · 2 answers · asked by Jane D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When it comes to sex, I'm willing to try almost anything. I love to roll play and all that kind of stuff, but my husband is statisfied with the basics. I know that he'd love it if we did some different stuff, but how do I open him up about it? Honestly, I'm getting kinda bored. We've been married for almost 7 years and I'm tired of doing the same things all the time..........

2007-01-11 23:01:04 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello, I am getting married this year and was wondering who makes the decisions about various wedding aspects. I know that as a bride I need to be involved, however my mum will hear or see things that she thinks would be great and pushes for them. How much do I compromose on? For example, she doesn't want a mud cake as she doesn't like them but the cakes she likes, my fiance and I don't like. I want her to feel involved and don't want to be selfish - I was wondering how much people involve their families in decisions as if my whole family has to like something the wedding will never be planned....

2007-01-11 23:00:20 · 16 answers · asked by milljanni 2 in Weddings

This doesn't sound very good but I need advice on what to do next

There is this girl(Lauren) that I liked for a little while now, I hung out with her a few times and we seem to have had a decent time talking on the phone, however, she was never the one to talk to me first and she didn't show sign of much interest

and recently, she was talking to my friend Sarah

Lauren was talking to her one time and asked Sarah if I ever talked about her, Sarah said no than asked her why? you like him?

this was her response to this

"Thats good, and eww no I don't like him"

o_o...

So yea....I want her more than a friend but...what are my odds??

2007-01-11 22:58:35 · 3 answers · asked by DarkAaron 1 in Singles & Dating

we were together nearly two years and i really want him back but i have heard he is with someone else help.

2007-01-11 22:58:31 · 9 answers · asked by magsgow 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 22:58:07 · 1 answers · asked by abu i 1 in Singles & Dating

but you have been together for nearly 8 years & in that time it has improved slowly, is it ok to keep going? My partner & I love each other & don't want to give up. We have stuck with the relationship through some very, very awful, trying times & slowly moving into something more positive. It's very slow though. What do you all think.

2007-01-11 22:57:57 · 7 answers · asked by Mishell 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 22:57:24 · 5 answers · asked by rianaroets 1 in Friends

i bet this question gets removed because of someone snitching as usual. i hate snitches.

2007-01-11 22:56:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel in love with #1 in about September when we met and we've been talking together since. He doesn't trust a lot of people but I feel like if I was there for him when he needs it maybe he can have the same feelings for me, that sort of thing. He's really nice,he makes me smile and actually makes me feel good about myself. He doesn't know how I feel about him so we are just friends. That sort of thing. But then, yesterday one of my guy friends just needed to get things off of his mind so I invited him to my house(first guy friend to ever be in my house, I never had a boyfriend so he's the first.) and he made me laugh,feel good about myself and everything like that. We joked around watched complimentries of Pirates of the carribean and it was so much fun. We've been friends since June 2006 , but before I knew the him it's just that we were only aquantinces(sp?) but then we started talking a lot more. I'm so confused! How do I know which guy i'm in love with?

2007-01-11 22:55:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm only 14 years old and too young to have one.... I believe that " Age does not matters in true love"..... Please help!!!

2007-01-11 22:51:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we all stoped telling lie.s.

2007-01-11 22:50:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My children have gone to there mums for the weekend, I'm got they day off today and am cleaning the carpets(dads job is never ending) just stopped for a cuppa as I am getting fed up pushing the dam cleaner slowly round the house.
Hoping to get it finished tomorow just what shall I do?

2007-01-11 22:50:07 · 11 answers · asked by loadsofgoesatthis 2 in Friends

I live in Ohio, I am a good parent and I do not have any drug or alcohol problems, etc. My oldest son has gotten into some trouble and is on probation. I told his Prob. Officer I knew about him badmouthing behind my back, forgot about my son while he was in JDC, and I was aware of him plotting with other parent's family to send my son to them. My son and I overheard him talking with his boss and said I couldn't have custody; she told him, I don't know what you're going to do but it'd better be fast. He has scared my mother into fighting me for custody. My son knows only part of what happened, but I was told I should just give them up because I cannot win, it's already been decided when he spoke to the Judge. I'm not financially well off, I don't know where to turn. I'm dedicated to my kids and this tears my heart out. Can anyone help me?

2007-01-11 22:49:58 · 4 answers · asked by californiagirl_66ohio 1 in Family

My husband's mom seems stand offish towards my daughter who is 10 months old. She seems to not want anything to do with her. We traveled 1.5 hours to see her 3-4 times and each time she only visited briefly as if uninterested. Other times she acted as if she was in a rush to get somewhere or as if she wasn't in a rush to see her children. I don't want my daughter to feel the same vibes that I am feeling as she grows up. It is almost like I don't want to even expose her to her grandmother's ways. My mother is dead so she is the only grandmother left. My husband never addresses any issue, so as you can guess he is totally ignoring this one as well. I am the opposite, if it needs to be addressed then I do so. What should I do? Honestly?

2007-01-11 22:49:45 · 4 answers · asked by sunneybear1 2 in Marriage & Divorce