Ever since I was 11 or 12 older men have been staring at me and asking me out. I developed really early at the age of 9 and now I'm 16 with a overdeveloped and curvy body. I don't dress slutty or tarty I just dress like a teen girl. It bothers me because I can never really be with anyone my own age and no one believes that I'
m 16.
2007-01-11 23:27:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OLD? I don't look old.
2007-01-11 23:30:54 · update #1
They think a lot of young girls are older because of their development. But once they hold a conversation with you they should automatically know how old you are. Grown up or older men know how old you are once they talk to you because younger girls say things, ask things and talk about school and their friends a lot..As to a older lady or woman talks and ask completely different things and hold completely different conversations than a younger person. If a guy acts like he doesn't know how old you are after talking to you, then he is lying and a big pervert. he might not know how old you are by how you look, but your mental development and experience in life by how you talk should tell him everything about your age.
2007-01-11 23:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know your true age and what is appropriate for you, Do not worry what other people think or say, if they do not believe your age then shrug and say back to them, "well, I didn't want to say anything but You look about fifty to me."
Or if it's someone your own age you can ask them if they learnt to use the potty yet.
You look like a woman, but you are still 16, so a lot of boys your age are not as mentally mature as you, nor physically (boys develop at a much slower speed, and sometimes not at all), so do things with your girlfriends and do not worry, you will find the right person for you, when the right time comes!
Have fun, be careful, and good luck!
2007-01-11 23:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you lookk older. Im sorry :( Just dress modestly, I know you say you dress like a teen so that is good, and hang out with the right people. Older men should not be staring at you, if they are and if you are finding it a problem talk to someone older that can do something, and if you ever feel threatened call the local police. Good luck and dont be discouraged. You could also look older if you are taller perhaps? or If you act more mature than girls your age!
2007-01-11 23:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by uzair2987 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's next to imposible to judge a girls age these days. Maybe you look older or are mature for your age. Also with an overdeveloped body you are likley to get a lot of attention. Don't worry about it, take it as a compliment.
2007-01-11 23:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by knight32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. Because you developed early. i don't see how you can't be with people of your own age, surely your classmates are the same age and they all know how old you are. I really think you're making more of this than you should
2007-01-11 23:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i no where you coming from it could be how you act or the way your body is shape that make you look older or how your face look but i don't really know how to help you but just keep telling them your right age hoped i helped you out or some thing
2007-01-11 23:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by miscraterr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is sometimes difficult to handle if people start believing otherwise regarding you. Let the people think what they may. Live your life and make friends with people that recognize you for what you are and not for how old you are.
2007-01-11 23:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by AnSID 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are probably built very desirable. Meaning your most likely well proportioned and that is very much a turn on for grown men.
Just be careful, alot of girls built really well get very large when they get older. Just stay in shape and you will keep the heads turning.
2007-01-11 23:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its wishful thinking on their part...it sounds like you are going to have to be more mature and strong in your thinking and decisions...or those men will lead you into a world of trouble. Seriously.
2007-01-11 23:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but some men are perverts.
I can't say it any better.
They like young girls.
Just keep with people your own age.
Just make friends and try.
2007-01-11 23:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋