I feel in love with #1 in about September when we met and we've been talking together since. He doesn't trust a lot of people but I feel like if I was there for him when he needs it maybe he can have the same feelings for me, that sort of thing. He's really nice,he makes me smile and actually makes me feel good about myself. He doesn't know how I feel about him so we are just friends. That sort of thing. But then, yesterday one of my guy friends just needed to get things off of his mind so I invited him to my house(first guy friend to ever be in my house, I never had a boyfriend so he's the first.) and he made me laugh,feel good about myself and everything like that. We joked around watched complimentries of Pirates of the carribean and it was so much fun. We've been friends since June 2006 , but before I knew the him it's just that we were only aquantinces(sp?) but then we started talking a lot more. I'm so confused! How do I know which guy i'm in love with?
2007-01-11 22:55:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But with the first guy, over winter break. I kept on haveing this feeling that something was wrong with him. and I found myself hopeing that he was ok and wandering how his winter break was. When we came back to school I was so happy to see him and it turns out he was actually sick over winter break.
2007-01-11 23:05:46 · update #1
Me and guy number 2 love to joke around and at the same time we can be serious with each other when needed which is like a little less then half of the time. We both love watching movies and are deep thoughted people(just like #1 guy). Also, we know that people can be stupid, all of them. and basic stuff like that.
2007-01-11 23:28:15 · update #2
How in heck am I a whore? I don't have a relationship with either of them like that...I never had a boyfriend ok? I just needed some advice so dont' call me something I ain't.
2007-01-12 10:16:41 · update #3
SOunds like you're "in love" with neither but maybe interested in both and that's normal. YOu don't need to decide right now! Don't get in over your head and make sure you are also looking at similar values, beliefs, and other qualities. I hope all our friends make us "feel good" but we need more in common for a long lasting relationship and love to truly blossom. Keep an open mind and good luck.
2007-01-11 23:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by ChiQuiBaby 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Don't listen to the people that called you a whore. Love can be very confusing if this is actually love that is. Your not in a relationship as you said and it's not like your makeing out with 5guys at once or a slut or anything. Just take a deep breathe and just listen to your heart. I know that is vague but really only you can only know for sure, even when it takes awhile to figure out.
2007-01-12 18:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by SweetCocoaAngel 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think it is too soon to determine love. Desire might be one thing but I am sure you probably have alot going on and might be having a hard time trying to tell the difference. Believe me if it is love you will know it.
2007-01-12 07:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by spyder 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Filthy whore.
2007-01-13 05:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋