When it comes to sex, I'm willing to try almost anything. I love to roll play and all that kind of stuff, but my husband is statisfied with the basics. I know that he'd love it if we did some different stuff, but how do I open him up about it? Honestly, I'm getting kinda bored. We've been married for almost 7 years and I'm tired of doing the same things all the time..........
2007-01-11 23:01:04 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him about a new magazine you've been reading. And each week has a theme. This week is kinky second honeymoon.
2007-01-11 23:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by I have a really long nickname!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're bored. Or maybe he doesnt' know any better or he's afraid to unleash his closet freak and let it all hang out.
Surf a few swinger sites or sex toy or porn sites. As if you are gathering info. Talk about sex toys, rockstars and 3somes, couples and swinging, bisexuality express curiousity. If you approach it matter of factly and say you are doing it for you he won't feel like he's being "bated" into some kind of set up.
Below are a few links below that can get you started in finding toys and like minded people. Maybe you should talk to your girlfriends and invite folks over for dinner and have those swapping sex stories. Guys HATE being out done and if they feel they are lacking in some area cuz their wifes gf is raving about her husband... trust me if he's got any alpha in him he'll step up to the plate.
The trick is to bring up the subject as if it came up randomly and then when it's discussed act like it's no big deal. Because it really isn't. You'd be surprised how many people are into what they are into.
Your goal is to introduce the subject without making him feel threatened or inadequatee. It's got to be fun for him too. It's supposed to be a FUN adventure.
2007-01-12 08:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by Cybrocupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave a "File for Divorce" folder laying around, stating your displeasure at his sex drive.
He will either lure you out into the woods for a "camping trip" in northern Canada, or get a little more crazy in the bedroom.
2007-01-12 07:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by Bono's Bug-Goggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-16 03:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two are mismatched concerning sex drive/ sex attitude.
2007-01-12 11:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-12 10:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋