Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

I have a date on sunday and took the oppurtunity to go shopping for it....and bought 2 pairs of really nice shoes.... One and tan and pointy...the other are more spanish riding boot style.....
Bearing in mind that I will be wearing boot cut jeans ... Which should I go for ......

But more importantly do women notice ...or look for men wearing good shoes.....

2007-01-11 21:16:27 · 7 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

dumped me last week, text me tonight saying "she misses me" i saw it two hours later when i got back and replied "me too". That's all. Didn't want to put myself out there too much. Didn't hear from her rest of the night. Is she a gamer? like the girl a lot but don't know if she wants me back. Breakup was mostly my fault.

2007-01-11 21:16:06 · 7 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

Last 2 holidays at my mother in-laws house, my bother in-law's wife has made comments to my 10 year old daughter about being tall and skinny. On Easter, she was pregnant so I didn't want to show my redneck side! She told my little nephew to give my daughter a hug because she was alittle boney and during Thanksgiving she started to tell my daughter bye and told her to come give her a hug, skinny-mini. My husband did hear her the 2nd time she made comment. He's promised to say something in the future, not! My mother in-law has bad nerves, drinks wine at dinner to calm down and can't handle conflict so I didn't want to start WWIII. I've had enough! You'd think a woman that has stated that she's a strong woman, well educated wouldn't treat a child this way. I'd appreciate any good come backs. My daughter has self-esteem issues and doesn't need this from her aunt. The ole' folks would say that she acts like," Aster on a stick:. What does that mean?

2007-01-11 21:15:54 · 7 answers · asked by anjoek5859 3 in Family

being looked for, what would you do if you knew where he was? He's got a drug problem, but outside of that, he's always been a pretty good kid. Really had no upbringing or any parents to show him any love or guidance. He's always looked down on himself, when he is a good person but making bad decisions in his young life. How would you handle a situation like that?

2007-01-11 21:14:10 · 5 answers · asked by Wutz it worth 2 ya? 6 in Family

It is said that a married man lives longer than an unmarried man, which I think is true but it has also been said that a married man is also more willing to die. This may sound a bit sarcastic but I really believe a married man has more problems than a single man/unmarried man. In today's modern world when everyone has more stress and problems (whether married/unmarried), what's the use really of living a long life !

2007-01-11 21:11:39 · 10 answers · asked by shankd67 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 21:11:07 · 14 answers · asked by faa 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 21:10:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys, I've been having this problem for a while now. Everytime I approach to talk someone or they approach me, I become flabbergasted. It doesn't matter if its a boy or girl, hot or ugly, I can't seem to think of anything funny or intelligent to say. My answer usually consists of "yes", "no","haha", and "thanks". I don't think I'm shy but I'm slowly losing confidence because I can't keep a conversation running. Anyone have any tips to help me resolve this issue?

2007-01-11 21:07:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband always help his family financially and especially his sister even he knows she shopping a lot. Whatever he gives to me he would gives his sis. the same or even extra. He wants to get me the handbag, of course he gets her one. She used to ask him money and ask him to buy this or that for his family members.We live wit his family.I understand that he loves his family but what about my daughter and I. could it be over the limit? He paid 80% of her bedroom set and yesterday he asked for my help when we bought the our bedroom set.
thanks

2007-01-11 21:05:16 · 5 answers · asked by Lilly 1 in Family

Why do they ask you out when you're already taken and they know it! I've had guys ask me out now that I'm in a relationship than ever in my 'single' life!! Do they do it to spite you? Not that I care about them anyway I love my man but still..its annoying when they do that!

There's this guy who keeps hitting on me and he knows I'm in a serious relationgship. He calls me and asks me out to the point where my guy started to notice and get jealous. I told him when he asked me if there might be a chance with him, I told him bluntly no. Everytime I turn him down he apologizes and promises he wont bother me again but only days after that and he starts all over.

How do I make him just go away? Should I tell my guy?

2007-01-11 21:05:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy in my school. he's been my crush for like, 2 years. i've been wanting to say him i love him or even just invite him to a simple movie date...but im toooooooooo shy! im too scared of rejection. well, im kinda chobby, but ieverybody tells me that im pretty, only if i could lose a few pounds. how can i make this guy love me? waaaaaaaaaa... :'c

2007-01-11 21:02:30 · 8 answers · asked by shirubiah 3 in Singles & Dating

yesterday i hacked an ATM and obtained alot of money.(it was just out of curiosity not that am that bad).this act has traumatised me the whole night ,i donot know if i should report the incident or just keep quiet as no one can know though am feeling reaaly guilty,please help me what do i do?

2007-01-11 21:02:09 · 13 answers · asked by faa 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay about my last question with the same answer. I am shy as it is. I mean Ive touch him... just not there. Lol. Like one time we were on the couch and I put my hands up the beack of his shirt and ran my rans down his abck. I touch him all the time but he never does it to me. And for the people telling to tell him... thats not going to happen. But for the people telling me to put his hands where I want them to be, I do but then keeps them their, but than the next time we makeout/kiss, they are back to my hips on laower back? How do I get him out of this shy state. Hes been like this for six months now and its starting to scare me cuase im starting to think he has no interest in me and hes just to scared to break up with me. What should I do?

2007-01-11 21:01:31 · 13 answers · asked by xhellsxlilxangelx 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 21:00:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay this is weird. Just about a week ago i got into a heated discussion with my gf, and we started arguing and stuff, then later that night after we had resolved the issue, she said that it was 'hot' and a 'turn on' when i was shouting at her. Lol, this is so weird! but i dont really see anything 'hot' about arguing!

Comments would be appreciated thanks =)

2007-01-11 20:58:34 · 14 answers · asked by thugster17 2 in Singles & Dating

how easy is it for a guy to start liking a girl? is it true that if a guy knows that a girl likes him he will never like her back?

2007-01-11 20:55:57 · 15 answers · asked by ceecee 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 20:55:37 · 12 answers · asked by malosbube 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everytime I think about the sex I had recently I get chills of excitement running through my body.

2007-01-11 20:55:09 · 7 answers · asked by stupid_blonde_from_hell 1 in Singles & Dating

1. Do you take your time and pick out some nice interior clothes? Something cute to impress the boyfriend? Or do you just put anything on?

2. Do you get ready for sex by showering really good?

Basically, How do you get ready?

2007-01-11 20:55:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating with emergency room doctor for 2 months. He always said that he doesn't have time to spend with me? I'm wondering that it's true? One time, he said that he wanted me to date with other guy because he doesn't know when he will have time to see me, but after that i met him once a week. How come?

Do u have expereience about date with a doctor? please share with me I would like to know how to handle it. Do u think he has many girls because you know...doctor is very interesting. (I don't mean his money)

2007-01-11 20:53:14 · 15 answers · asked by olive juice 1 in Singles & Dating

i thought it was just an infatuation. a passing flirtation that i would eventually get over. but it's been a year :( i've grown to care for him. i just realized this recently. we've been very good friends. we've admitted to each other that we like each other. we've kissed. but we can't be together because he has a girlfriend so we decided to stay friends. but we still talk often. we enjoy being with each other. but it's just friendship. but recently, we became distant. i'm starting to really like him so i stopped talking to him so i'll know how he really feels. but he stopped talking to me too :( he'll text only when i text him. now i miss him... what do i do?

2007-01-11 20:51:56 · 24 answers · asked by Gel G 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean we've been dating for about six months now, and hes really sweet and everything. A girls dream guy but hes so shy. He will kiss me and all but when he does he always puts his hands on my hips or lower back. Its nothing else. All of his friends dont know why hes so shy about that kinda stuff cause when he is with his friends the always talk dirty. (But what what kind of guys dont?) Can somone give me ways to find out why hes so shy without asking him?, Or atleast get him to touch me with out asking him to?

2007-01-11 20:49:28 · 21 answers · asked by xhellsxlilxangelx 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 20:49:07 · 3 answers · asked by dizzy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 20:48:22 · 8 answers · asked by Lancelot 3 in Singles & Dating

we have known each other for abt a year.. been havin lunch..ligh hearted convor. i like him.. n kindda sure he used to like me. he recently told me he might take up a job at bnp - relocatin in hong kong..if he do take up e job... i m lost.. a friend told me... to let him know i used to like him but now i m movin on. i m not sure if ii wanna move on or not... relationship to me is part of life n not life itself. i have career dreams n goals that i wanna achieve

2007-01-11 20:47:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 20:45:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just asked the guy out that i like and he said "can do". I asked if he wanted to go to the cinema on Sunday and he said "could do". What does this mean? Is this a yes?

Please let me know!!!!

2007-01-11 20:44:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who's a girl. She's nice, pretty and a great girl. But she's just my friend. I want to date her but I'm hesitant because all of her other guy friends have asked her out. I think that guys professing their love or attraction to her, happens all of the time. I'm not really sure if she would appreciate it if I revealed my feelings. She might just see me as one of the rest. Well, we are good friends, and I think that it is because I treat her like a person, and not like a pretty face.

If she was attracted to me it would probably be because I never tried to ask her out. But if I did ask her out, I would be destroying the very thing that made her attracted to me. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

2007-01-11 20:43:02 · 11 answers · asked by TheSilverBeetles 4 in Singles & Dating

A very good friend of mine told me that he wanted to date me when he started to get to know me, but I went into a 3 month relationship at that time. As we got to know each other I started falling for him and told him. He then told me he was afraid of ruining the friendship and we kept being friends with occational making out. Last night he said he knows their won't ever be anything between us and that it can't work, because we are too much alike. I mean c'mon??? So I know where I stand now, but it just seems so unreal. Is this how most guys think or is he the exception? Please help. I need to know, because i still think if he has feelings for me which along the line he said a couple of times then how can a decision be based on likeness???

2007-01-11 20:42:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A very good friend of mine told me that he wanted to date me when he started to get to know me, but I went into a 3 month relationship at that time. As we got to know each other I started falling for him and told him. He then told me he was afraid of ruining the friendship and we kept being friends with occational making out. Last night he said he knows their won't ever be anything between us and that it can't work, because we are too much alike. I mean c'mon??? So I know where I stand now, but it just seems so unreal. Is this how most guys think or is he the exception? Please help. I need to know, because i still think if he has feelings for me which along the line he said a couple of times then how can a decision be based on likeness???

2007-01-11 20:42:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends