Okay this is weird. Just about a week ago i got into a heated discussion with my gf, and we started arguing and stuff, then later that night after we had resolved the issue, she said that it was 'hot' and a 'turn on' when i was shouting at her. Lol, this is so weird! but i dont really see anything 'hot' about arguing!
Comments would be appreciated thanks =)
2007-01-11 20:58:34 · 14 answers · asked by thugster17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all girls do...
Some girls would slap the hell out of you if you shout at them...
So don't assume that just because your gf gets turned on... all girls do!!!
2007-01-11 21:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's ridiculous-just because your gf gets turned on by it, does not mean that girls/women in general do. It sounds like it comes from an unhealthy place-like maybe having a father wound of some kind. Either a father who shouted at her or one that was very meek. Anyway, I know plenty females that would find it a major turn off and would leave! I agree with you-nothing hot about arguing!
2007-01-12 05:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by ontheroadagainwithoutyou 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the turn on comes from the high emotion that was being felt from both of you. If you were in a heated discussion, both of you had really strong, heartfelt feelings coming to the surface. You probably started shouting because you felt passionate about what it was you were saying. That can be extremely attractive to see someone who has that much emotion going on. Now, keep in mind, to generalize that ALL women like that is a little dangerous. But, if your girlfriend isn't used to seeing you that passionate about things it was probably really exciting for her to see you in a "new" light. If it turned her on, cool...in the right situation it can make for some fantastic "make up" sex.
2007-01-12 05:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by AprilDawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women like a take charge guy who stands up for himself. Don't do that too often, it'll back-fire and you'll come across as a couple who argues all the time.
2007-01-12 05:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when u arguing and turn to resolved it it will be hot because it's cool he will loves u more after that believe me
2007-01-12 05:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the rush. Some girls just like to have their men throw them on the bed, rip their clothes off and make wild monkey sex to them. I know I do.
2007-01-12 05:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by *Chinisu* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women find it a turn-on. I hate it and panic when I'm yelled at by someone. Nothing turns me on more than a very sweet, gentle man.
2007-01-12 05:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by mary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
arguing is always a turn on for me in some way becasue i know that i will win no matter what the other says and then my baby agrees with me afterwards and we get jiggy with it
2007-01-12 05:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by littlepirateprincess_93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to defentaly sa NO WAY on your question because most girls are more sensitive the most guys and their feelings get hurt easier. It makes them feel degrated and unappreciated.
2007-01-12 05:12:21 · answer #9 · answered by sasy_tabby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well take that side of her and turn it to your side every time you are angry or any thing shout at her and if she asked why keep shouting and tell her that turn you on so I'm gonna keep doing it .
2007-01-12 05:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋