i thought it was just an infatuation. a passing flirtation that i would eventually get over. but it's been a year :( i've grown to care for him. i just realized this recently. we've been very good friends. we've admitted to each other that we like each other. we've kissed. but we can't be together because he has a girlfriend so we decided to stay friends. but we still talk often. we enjoy being with each other. but it's just friendship. but recently, we became distant. i'm starting to really like him so i stopped talking to him so i'll know how he really feels. but he stopped talking to me too :( he'll text only when i text him. now i miss him... what do i do?
2007-01-11 20:51:56 · 24 answers · asked by Gel G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow what a situation....
I think you should tell the guy straight up that you love him but in a romantic way you know?
I bet cha he loves you too but he just tries to avoid the same situation as you. Get more close to him and dont stop talking to him. tell him the guy would love it
2007-01-11 21:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. I know its easy to say but that’s the best thing to do. I believe the guy is happy with his girl friend. I guess that’s why he stopped the text thing.
Anyway, what kind of a guy is he? Why would he kiss you when he has a girl friend? Do you really want a guy who would go around kissing other girls? No, I don’t think so. You are worth more than that.
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Stop texting him. And stop kissing guys with boy friends (sorry if I sound rude) because if they find out, you will get in trouble and it’s not just right. Again you don’t need friends like him. Friendship is a two way thing.
2007-01-12 05:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by tomwaterboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still has a girlfriend it is probably best if you let the distance and absence take it's toll. You should not allow your feelings guide you without your knowledge of how fair your actions will be to all involve. You are treading upon trouble that you know will end up hurting you more than your desire for your friend. Give someone else a chance to be yours without all that drama, sneaking and hiding. It is common knowledge to all that the main reason you want him more now is because he isn't giving you that "dangerous attention" anymore. Pick up your self-esteem and find someone great for yourself, girl! Remember, you will reap what you sew, if you plant an apple you will receive a tree filled with apples! Hope you like apples.
2007-01-12 05:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps what has happened is that his girlfriend noticed that he started talking his nice lady friend and was overwhelmed with jealousy. She might think that he's looking for someone else. Texting can be very quiet. It's great that you've decided to stay friends with him, and you backed away when you realized his heart belonged to someone else. It does show that you love him and you'd wish him all of the happiness in the world.
Keep text messaging him and don't lose that contact. If something were to fall through with his girlfriend, he will turn to someone who knows will help him feel better.
2007-01-12 04:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by *Chinisu* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept the fact that he has a girlfriend and move on to someone that is single. It's best that you broke yourself away from him if, he has already let you know that he wants to be just friends. Try to be strong and be patient, he might come around but, I doubt it, men don't pick up on things like that. If it's still not going anywhere then, just leave it alone, you are only hurting yourself more by trying to keep in touch with him.
2007-01-12 05:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by grizzly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ! The answer is clear! He had chosen to stay away from your form one reason or another. If he really love you, he would have be you and not only just reply to you. It time you put it down, forget about him. You will found some one better. or it would be better that you both sit down clarify once for all. It well only set you both free.
2007-01-12 05:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by FIXIT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games by stopping the communication to test what he'll do. Be real. Be honest. Either it will happen or it won't, but at least you won't have any regrets.
2007-01-12 04:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by cruztacean1964 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that. you may wanna stay away cause you don't want to get hurt more. he may have made up his mind about staying with his current gf and become more committed to her than flirting or playing around with you. if you really wanna know why, ask him directly. but he may not wanna tell you though. stay away and protect yourself. if he really likes you, he'll come around and break up with his gf. meanwhile, start dating other people and don't make yourself so available!
2007-01-12 04:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by xyz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shame! Probably he is busy with his gf...go out and enjoy yourself! There are plenty of fish in the ocean so why limit yourself to one. Meet your friends and who knows through them you will get to meet the one that's made for you...Have fun! Goodluck!
2007-01-12 05:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by LiZzaRda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say but you need to move on..maybe he likes you but i think he loves his gf(i know it hurts) coz if he have a feelings for you then he should have pursue from the very beginning..coz if you love a person you dont play games with them..i know it aint easy but try avoid him coz if you dont, your feelings towards him will grow..i know reality sucks huh..dont waste your time on a guy who already has a gf..dont worry,im sure you'll meet a guy on your own who will like you or if you're lucky,love you..help yourself move on girl..go out and have fun with your friends..divert your attention coz it helps..good luck girl..find your 'unattached' man ;)
2007-01-12 05:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by ♥heartbreaker♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋