Okay about my last question with the same answer. I am shy as it is. I mean Ive touch him... just not there. Lol. Like one time we were on the couch and I put my hands up the beack of his shirt and ran my rans down his abck. I touch him all the time but he never does it to me. And for the people telling to tell him... thats not going to happen. But for the people telling me to put his hands where I want them to be, I do but then keeps them their, but than the next time we makeout/kiss, they are back to my hips on laower back? How do I get him out of this shy state. Hes been like this for six months now and its starting to scare me cuase im starting to think he has no interest in me and hes just to scared to break up with me. What should I do?
2007-01-11 21:01:31 · 13 answers · asked by xhellsxlilxangelx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be a number of things but if you insist on believing that 'shyness' will excuse you from asking your boyfriend what you want to know, then get ready to be used and abused and in this case always ignorant of what your boyfriend is thinking. You have not because you ask not, that's what the Word of God says. Even if you don't believe in God it still rings true. Are you old enough or mature enough to have such a relationship? Because anyone in a relationship cannot keep their questions to themselves and there are no magical remedies that will answer this question for you without speculation. If you really want the truth it may be best to "ASK" the boy. If he doesn't answer then you may need to let him go because you guys have trouble communicating, which is the root of most breakups.
2007-01-11 21:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see that previous answers will not be alot of help. This is your relationship so only you can fix it. Have you tried talking to him about it? Maybe he isn't as comfortable as 'touching' you are you are about him. But I doubt that he will want to break up with you. If he is worth the wait to you then you should wait for him to be ready so you can do it together. A relationship is built on how much you trust each other. So trust him and he will be ready in time. Its just the matter if you are willing to wait for him. Good luck darl!
2007-01-11 21:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should do anything. I think he likes you. He's not ready to go any farther. I don't think you should push it, it will happen when its supposed to. If he didn't like you, I don't think you would be doing all that making out. Remember, men are logical beings. Anyways, just go with whatever happens. Everything is alright!
2007-01-11 21:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by CURTIS TERI C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called "Talking" talk to him, found out whats wrong and if theres anything you can help, with the issues. It will end up a break-up, if you guys dont talk about, 6 months is a long period, must be something on his mind.
2007-01-11 21:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...I honestly question his sexuality. Either that or he really doesn't like you very much. Or he's just young and has a youthful mind. Either way, it's obvious he doesn't wish to do anything sexual with you. It doesn't sound like he's shy.
2007-01-11 21:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by Benji Duncan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like your young and he is scared just be patient and understanding it will happen unless you act to quickly and scare him off I am guessing you are his first girlfriend?
2007-01-11 21:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by Dan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 3rd response is pretty good. be direct. also you could try going out on dates with other guys. it's not like you're married. if he sees you with other guys maybe he'll step up to the plate.
2007-01-11 21:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stupid is as stupid does my mama always told me that life is like a box of chocolate you never know what you gonna get.. and thats the truth..
2007-01-11 21:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't talk to him about it, you won;t know the answer.
2007-01-11 21:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he's a pu ssy.. slap him in the head
2007-01-11 21:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋