I mean we've been dating for about six months now, and hes really sweet and everything. A girls dream guy but hes so shy. He will kiss me and all but when he does he always puts his hands on my hips or lower back. Its nothing else. All of his friends dont know why hes so shy about that kinda stuff cause when he is with his friends the always talk dirty. (But what what kind of guys dont?) Can somone give me ways to find out why hes so shy without asking him?, Or atleast get him to touch me with out asking him to?
2007-01-11 20:49:28 · 21 answers · asked by xhellsxlilxangelx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him this.
P.S. i think u found a nice boyfriend.
2007-01-11 20:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The biggest reason why most relationships fail is because their is no communication!! so why not ask him, im not sure on how old you are but maybe hes waiting until your ready maybe he realloy cares about you, why do people always assume the worst in these situations why dont you take him out for a romantic meal then after dinner take him for a walk kiss him passionatly tell him take you really love him and your ready to go further with him and take him home and see what happens. Life is too short to be sitting around focusing on whats wrong so get off the computer and be with your man and focuse on whats right!!
2007-01-11 20:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet_Miss_Toni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to make him touch you is to ask him ..But if you don't want to say it .. then just guide his hand when you kiss .Or hug him tight and make him put his arms around you. He might be shy just because he doesn't know if you want that,or it might be his age and his experience...(I can only guess since you didn't type it,and this sounds like a teen problem).
But a good relationship is based on good conversation.. Men aren't mind readers and neither are women... tell him what you want.. the fact that you want him to touch you isn't going to chase him away .. trust me on this.
2007-01-11 21:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by Alexander 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend does respect you very much in order to do this. Communication is a wonderful thing, ask him general questions about this subject and see what he says. Maybe he doesn't know where you stand on the whole issue. Good Luck!
2007-01-11 20:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He respects you and is a gentleman. Don't push him. If you want things to go a little further then you try touching him. But if I were you I would just enjoy the respect of a nice boy.
2007-01-11 20:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really understand what you feel, but i do know that it should be the girl who should draw the first blood. because from the start, your man worked so hard to get you, so he could never think of doing something as to touch you because he fears he might lose you du to one false move, but if you show him that you want to... then just tell him or be the dominatrix that you want to be. you pretty have much to lose than him... but what's wrong with him being a gentleman? at least you got yourself a decent man...
2007-01-11 20:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by chd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reason he is doing this is because he respects you very much. You are a really lucky girl to get a guy like this.
He may be frighten by the way you react to his behavior.
2007-01-11 20:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by prashmanic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is of the same sexual persuasion, until he works that out then you may have to accept his coyness and or his eventual decision. But hey enjoy it men like that have genuine respect for women.
2007-01-11 21:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think in this type of scenario u shuld kinda gain control . guide his hands show him its ok with u n that ur ready for the next step . he probably dont wanna dis respect u thats y he aint try nuttin yet . good luck
2007-01-11 21:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by bandolera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well next time you touch him where you want to then take his hands and put them where you want to then next time he will do it on his own he look like a good boy don't let him run away from you best of luck.
2007-01-11 21:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He maybe just respecting you as a woman and not wanting to take things too far too fast.
2007-01-11 20:55:06 · answer #11 · answered by foreveready 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋