Why do they ask you out when you're already taken and they know it! I've had guys ask me out now that I'm in a relationship than ever in my 'single' life!! Do they do it to spite you? Not that I care about them anyway I love my man but still..its annoying when they do that!
There's this guy who keeps hitting on me and he knows I'm in a serious relationgship. He calls me and asks me out to the point where my guy started to notice and get jealous. I told him when he asked me if there might be a chance with him, I told him bluntly no. Everytime I turn him down he apologizes and promises he wont bother me again but only days after that and he starts all over.
How do I make him just go away? Should I tell my guy?
2007-01-11 21:05:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The most important thing is not keeping anything from your boyfriend. Once the other guy sees that you told your boyfriend he will realize there is no chance. And he won't enjoy hitting on you as much because the excitement will be lost. Remember to always tell your man anything you would want him to tell you if the tables were switched. What if a girl was hitting on him? I bet you would put an end to that..just as your boyfriend will. He will make it all go away, don't worry. Just tell him.
2007-01-11 21:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Williams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your guy the whole entire story with all the details.
Obviously this other guy is not taking the hint from you.
For starters, just try ignoring him. Maybe he will go away, but it might take a while.
And he might just be after you because you are taken - so you are a prize worth chasing. If you were single, would he still go after you? That will tell you.
But tell your boyfriend. Your BF might have a word with him and tell him to get lost. Maybe then he will listen.
2007-01-12 05:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy it baby that someone is after u even when he knows u r not interested. u've already told him u r not interested so ur already burning him down and as far as ur own bf is concerned just go and tell him to see how he reacts and what he can do 4 u. this may even attract ur bf towards u as he will have a feeling always that someday u may not change ur mind. so he will always run after u. well that's my own personal experience that i had with my own bf.
2007-01-12 05:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys likes to know that they the one that could lead you astray: call it male satisfaction. But we get the satisfaction of seeing our man fighting to keep us around, so tell your man, the greatest ego boost u may ever get!!
2007-01-12 05:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend to take care of it for you. Let him make it clear to the other guy that you are taken and to leave you alone.
2007-01-12 05:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by grizzly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have to ler your guy know your feelings about it that the guy is bugging you. Once you do that, he can handle things if he sees fit. If the guy continues to bother you, let your guy know.
2007-01-12 05:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by Tori M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they want you to go out with them, and drop the regular guy, and then they will drop you. It's just a game they play.
2007-01-12 05:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it begins to bother you, best way to turn that guy off is to tell your man and he will do some precautions or stop him for good.
2007-01-12 05:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur guy but ask him not to react and u 2 just IGNORE HIM
he wd soom settle down
2007-01-12 05:10:16 · answer #9 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋