i like tis guy who is 35, 10 yr older. divorce.he is unaware of e fact tat i noe he is divorce, do i tell him?

Question

we have known each other for abt a year.. been havin lunch..ligh hearted convor. i like him.. n kindda sure he used to like me. he recently told me he might take up a job at bnp - relocatin in hong kong..if he do take up e job... i m lost.. a friend told me... to let him know i used to like him but now i m movin on. i m not sure if ii wanna move on or not... relationship to me is part of life n not life itself. i have career dreams n goals that i wanna achieve

Answer 1

Why not tell him. If he turns you down, then at least you will have tried and found out. Then again, he may give you a chance. If he takes this other job and move to another continent without you letting him know how you feel, you'll probably spend a good part of the rest of your life wondering what would have happened if you told him. You have nothing to loose and a lot to gain.

Answer 2

I'm sorry but it's hard to take this question seriously with your career dreams n goals. It looks and sounds like a pre-teen wrote that post. You need to go to school and get yourself taken care of before you worry about hooking a man who's thinking of leaving the country.

Answer 3

I feel that you should tell him how you feel about him. If you don't tell him now, you'll probably regret it later in your life. There isn't any harm in doing such things but what you say is correct. " Relationship is part of our life and not life itself" So even he turned you down, you still can move on with your life.

Answer 4

Although relationships should be built on truth/trust but I feel it is not important at this level as it is a very personal matter. He may you when the feeling get deeper.

Answer 5

Please start with improving your spelling skills. Your question was very hard to read.