he broke up with me 2 weeks ago. the only convo we had after that was a week ago on aim. but he sounds very cold. so after that i quit talking to him and i make myself invisible. then i noticed once i was invisible he went on line for like 3 minutes and then signed off. when i went back online he would stay for hours. it's kinda akward since neither of us talk to each other. i dont know why he does this. maybe he's waiting for me to talk to him first? since in the past when he broke up with me i always chased him back. but i'm not gonna do that any more. i still hope he'd come back on his own though. he broke up with me b/c he cant blalance everything in his life thus he doesnt want a relationship right now, which i believe him. but now why does he do this? I think he wants me to chase him again but when i talked to him a week ago he was so cold. What should I do to counterplay his game to make him come back on his own?
2007-01-11 06:51:50 · 8 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop worrying about him..
Stay away from him..
Stop talking to him..
Move on..
Find someone else...
2007-01-11 06:55:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Girl.... I think that you are just seeing things. For instance, the whole AIM thing. You are trying and hoping that he still wants to be with you, when in reality he doesn't. No matter how busy, or how insane a guy's or girl's life is.. if they are really into someone, they would be with them no matter what. I mean picture yourself in a very busy and insane life.. if you were truly in love with a guy, you would be with them no matter what, right? Especially if you are going through things in life.. because it's always good to have someone to listen and care about your problems right????
Let me tell you a little story about my ex.. I was truly in love with him and one day he just told me that he doesn't want to be in a relationship now because he was going through problems at home (which he was being that his grandfather was sick.) I felt bad so it took me a long time to get over him. Then his best friend (whom was really close to me) told me that he just really did not want to be with me, that he wanted to get back with his ex and was seeing her at the same time he was seeing me. And I believed him because she use to call him all the time. I also use to see him on AIM and he tended to do the same thing your guy does when I am invisible. But then I got sick and changed both my s/n and my cell phone number. He had no way in contacting me.
A year later.. I signed on my old s/n (at that time I was completely over him) and he ended up telling me the whole truth. And that he missed me and BLAH BLAH BLAH!!!!!!
Point is.. DO NOT LOOK FOR HIM! He will when he realizes how dumb he was in letting you go. If not... just move on like I did, it always turns out better anyways.
Good luck and sorry for my super long comment!
2007-01-11 07:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by WiseGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MOve on with your life.. My dd is dealing with the same thing. She likes this guy and keeps pestering him until she really ticked him off...so just let him go, maybe someday things will change but for right now just go on...
2007-01-11 06:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by heartache 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find someone else. You guys are just playing games.
2007-01-11 06:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want him to come back?
If he comes back, do you believe the relationship will be better?
2007-01-11 06:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u want him to come back? he is just playing mind games
2007-01-11 07:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by debbie o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I trutly recomend to you to errase him from you IM list and you won't know if he is online or not...And works trust me...He is you ex- Isn't so you should errased him already...It works...I won't like to know if my ex is online or not...He is an ex- so move on...He is doing nothing...
2007-01-11 06:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt like you anymore. get over him and move on.
2007-01-11 06:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋