What if you thought a girl was a friend of yours...ANYWAY, she starts EMBARRASING you in front of others???

Question

Later, you told her nicely.."i do not like you embarrassing me in front of people"...she just says.."Oh, with a smile on her face.."...immediately, i got suspicious...would you STILL BE HER FRIEND...i can let her go anytime...just by not returning her calls...we live in different cities... tell me your take on that please...

Answer 1

If it's not the first time it happens, then disregard this friendship, in life you have to eliminate anything that's negative, including friends.

Answer 2

This is a tough decision and one you will have to make on your own but here is something to think about.

If this person is not a valued friend and you "can let her go at anytime" (as you said) then it should not be a big deal. It doesn't sound as if you are close anyway. However, if this person IS a close friend, then you should be able to talk to them and explain how you feel. Then if she does not stop, then your friendship may not mean as much to her as it does to you. On the other hand, you could always embarass her in front of other people; this is not a good thing for you to do but it depends on the person that you are talking about. Some people only understand what you are going thru if you put them in the same situation.

Answer 3

I know how you feel. I had a comedian typed friend before that likes to make jokes about all her other friends in front of others, as well. I told her that I didn't like how she did that because I am sensitive. She apologized and said she didn't know that she was hurting my feelings. She is now more considerate to my feelings when making jokes. I think that if you told her how you felt, but she is still demonstrating that kind of behavior, stop being friends with her. If she was a real friend she would be considerate to how you feel.

Answer 4

I wouldn't be friends with her.that happened to me three days ago..awkward..I was friends with this girl scence 2 grade and three days ago she told this hot guy I liked him when I wasn't paying any attention and he was kind of freaking out, so I'm like,"What did you just say?!?!" and she said "nothing, nothing!" and she was smiling and laughing!!! I was so desperate, I swore to God that I didn't like him, and dont eat my face off bc of that, I feel really bad about it.I was sitting right next to them too!I think she did that because she likes him too, but still, all I did was sit by him!!What did I do wrong??

Answer 5

leave her,u know,dont be sb who wanna take ur self confidence.always be some one who can feel u,and by the time u r with each other u feel happy and wonderful,not.....
its so easy to answer this question,if u just think a little bit

Answer 6

you did the right thing telling her afterwards, and she hasn't given you an explanation, she's being stupid and wants to make you nervous, I'll never understand why people do that, she might think it's funny, I'd drop her but maybe it's not the right thing, only don't let her hurt u

Answer 7

Let her go don't ever take anyone embarresing you there are plenty more friends out there. She is shaming you for her own fun and wot fun do u get.........embarressment that's wot she's just being heartless and unfair. Get rid matey.

Answer 8

I would give her another chance and tell her seriously that you really hate being embaressed. If she does it again then just let her go. She's not worth it if she wont respect u

Answer 9

Let her go- some people are not worth the trouble.

Answer 10

maybe she is jealous of you or she has low self esteem and it makes her feel better about herself to embarass you. if she didnt apologize when you brought it up to her i would tell her that you would really like it to stop and if it doesn't stop just stop talking to her. your friends are supposed to make you feel good about yourself, not be the one putting you down or embarassing you.