What do you make of that?
2007-01-11 06:47:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good on yer mate !!!
Nothing wrong with dreams
Dam good way of getting in the mood to be spontaneous with your wife.
Sounds like your inner good qualities are rebelling in thoughts.
2007-01-11 15:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I have been pregnant I have had weird dreams but they have always stopped right before anything happened. I mean I would wake up convinced I was next to the person in my dream, thats how real it was. (and no matter how quick you go back to sleep, you never get to the good part) I can see the guilt being a part of waking up, Myself, I CAN NOT lie or cheat anything. Even messing around playing cards, if I see someones cards I fold my hand. I feel guilty about everything I do, even taking stuff back to Wal-Mart. I think that makes a good man! Can't even cheat in his dreams, You have a lucky wife!!!
2007-01-11 06:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by MyOpinionMatters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax in the dream and let it happen. Just dont try to make the dream into a reality ok. You're wife is much more important than a raunchy dream. If you make love to her more often, you wouldnt get these dreams you know and if you do, it will be ure wife that will be in it, not some other woman.
2007-01-11 06:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself how do you feel about your relationship with your wife. Have you cheated on your wife in the past? sometimes dreams aren't actually literal you have to look more into it. Sometimes you could be angry at you wife for something and feel like you could cheat but you love her so much you never would maybe that's why in your dreams you never go all the way. It sounds like you and your wife may have some communicating to work on.
2007-01-11 06:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your wife, truly, you wont cheat on your wife. If you let your dreams/fantasies get the best of you, just leave your wife. It will be hard, but its better to leave her before you do it than to be caught and...well you know the rest. I just wish more people weren't so cowardly and selfish because most would go ahead a cheat hoping to not get caught.
But do what you want to do. Either way, you'll live through whatever the result, unless your wife becomes a psycho and murders you both if she finds out. lol
2007-01-11 06:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by niknikki86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel guilty? Are they cheating dreams where you don't tell your wife? Are the dreams where your wife is even present? I have dreams where I am out with other men and "cheat on my husband" but in the dreams I don't have a husband. I tell him about it, he asks what it was I dreamt and then makes it a reality with me and him.
2007-01-11 06:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by rothe_jabbuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to the other poster - do NOT tell you wife about this. You are doing nothing wrong and telling her will only serve to hurt her feelings. Keep the dreams to yourself and don't act on them. Meanwhile, maybe you're a little bored in the bedroom, spice things up with your wife.
2007-01-11 06:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by lookinforanswers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been married for more than 5 years. It is very tempting because you are bored. Introduce new things and it MIGHT get better. I have the same problem. I have been married 15 years, but my wife has no interest in sex or things of that nature.
I would like to say it gets better, but it does not. But cheating will make things MUCH worse.
2007-01-11 06:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by uisignorant 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you dream you are making love , but in your dream you stop short of climax, you're left unfulfilled. If you have a sexual dream that starts out promising, but then just fizzles out, leaving you frustrated and angry, this dream symbolizes a lack of fulfillment and a frustration in life that may have nothing at all to do with your sex life. Look at recent events in your life, and consider those things that have left you frustrated.
According to Sigmund Freud, all of our dreams are linked with sexual issues. Sexual dreams can contain clues to important personal needs, desires, fears, and changes.
So, there are many questions you need to ask yourself.
1. What is the dream in its entirety?
2.What type of dream is it? (eg. everyday dream, dream of desire, symbolic etc.)
There are more but you have to ask and answer them.
Basically, your brain gives you a scenario and see how you will react. As, in a learning type way, but it is really up to you to determine the meaning of your dreams, because no one knows you better than you.
Anyway, there is really not enough information there to answer your question.
We all have had dreams similar to yours at one time or another.
2007-01-11 07:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by liquidblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you are a good person
maybe try some therapy, couples therapy
hen just assess how much you need, if you only get 10%, not just sex either, then maybe time to tell her you are looking, maybe she kicks you out at that point so be ready.
Be real and say exactly what is happening and what you feel, if it changes say that.
Then no guilt.
2007-01-11 06:55:08 · answer #10 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋