Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

I have had both and my thought is that if you want hot, hard, fast sex, have a young 'un. But if you want sweet long love-it's the older guys. And older men pay more attention to you and to your body. I'd like to hear what men think too.

2007-01-11 07:02:06 · 15 answers · asked by cici 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so my friend hit my other friend in the face while we were playing basketball. now they want me to choose a side. please help me!!! what should i do???

2007-01-11 07:02:06 · 12 answers · asked by fjsklhfs d 1 in Friends

I'm a virgin and so is he, but whenever we get into a hot makeout session, his c*ck gets hard and i dont know if we should have sex. I'm ready but i don't know if he is, should we do it or wait?

2007-01-11 07:02:04 · 39 answers · asked by Jess53 1 in Singles & Dating

well, u see,i'm in 8th grd (don't say i'm too yung, becuz i kno & w/e, i just need help) there is this girl who i really love a lot...and i think she could like me back. she often wants to talk to me and start conversation, which is not wat she'd do with any otha guy because she is self-concious and w/e....she has secrets about me that she won't say, but the secrets r disguised (i figured it out)....she also in a way (not a "wrong" way) wants to like touch me and stuff, becuz often she makes unessesary, not bad, contact with me (like my hands and stuff, or if she pushes me).......also, recently she made something for me that she wants me to keep forever......girls....do u think she likes me? gimmie advice? help me?

2007-01-11 07:01:54 · 4 answers · asked by Pretty Boy 3 in Singles & Dating

I used to take part in their activities but would he find it weird if I post something?

2007-01-11 07:01:28 · 27 answers · asked by MAR 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do I talk to her about being home and what she misses or should I talk about different topics to get her mind off of it. She started crying in front of me today and it really got me upset because I hate to see her like that. Any help you all could provide would be greatly appreciated. Ideas of things we could do or talk about would be huge. Thanks.

2007-01-11 07:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by rocawearfan 1 in Friends

I really like this kid named Chris. We talk a lot and flirt and hang out all the time. I think he likes me but I can't quite tell. We have the same guy friends so when we all hang out, Chris only hangs out with me and talks to me. We joke around and flirt. He's really nice to me and really funny. The thing I'm confused about it that he's a naturally nice kid. Except to people he doesn't like.
Today on the bus we were talking and he was looking into my eyes and listening intently (sp?). Also he had said something and I was laughing and he smiled at me a lot. We talk a lot and I don't know if he likes me or if I'm just one of his friends. I really like him. I mean every time we talk I can't help but smile when I'm around him.
One time when he and I and our guy friends were hanging out he took me alone and we sat on this bench and he showed me a gorgeous view of across the river. It was before Christmas and lights over the river were on and it was a clear sky and it was really pretty. He sat really close to me too.
Okay, he's a really hard one to figure out. He's really really nice to me. Like as if we were already going out. We've never actually gone to the point where if we got any closer we could have kissed. I think he would be a good boyfriend because it's all about personality with him. He doesn't care about looks and that's what makes me feel good. I'm not ugly but I'm not absolutely gorgeous. I'm just pretty ya know? I don’t want to sound conceited because I have the worst self-esteem. I'm just starting to notice it. Anyway, when he smiles at me it's not like "ugh get away from me" fake smile it's a sincere smile. Like he's into me. I don't know but I'm really afraid to ask him if he likes me. He's in my world history class and goes on my bus.
I sit in the seat next to him everyday on the bus. He talks to me but never really stares at me. I really don’t think he likes me but I just can’t tell. Sometimes I’ll just be listening while he’s talking and he won’t look at me and he doesn’t stare at me likes he’s in love with me. I’m so confused.

2007-01-11 07:01:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who would go

2007-01-11 07:00:48 · 7 answers · asked by kiss_of_toxin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a "friend" that will be leaving for Iraq soon. I saw him last weekend, and we had a great time. No sex though. He's leaving for California for additional training, and then on to Iraq. I will be seeing him this weekend again, and it will be the last time before he deploys. Any ideas on how to make the weekend memorable for him?

2007-01-11 07:00:38 · 12 answers · asked by GAgirl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have never liked tattoos on ladies but lately I have been finding them more attractive. I guess my taste is changing as I get a little older.

2007-01-11 07:00:38 · 2 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok heres the deal I'm getting married next may..i thought of having a catholic ceromony since my finace family asked us to since they were paying for A LOT of the wedding..but I decided not to after talking to my fiance..we would have to promise to bring our daughter up Catholic and it would be hypocritical of us since we dont go to church and have our own beliefs and faiths..how are we going to get married?? I know we can have a non religious wedding but who would do it? a judge? i dont just want to go to city hall I do actually want to have a wedding. And where on earth would we have it..finding a place in NC is hard to find..please help I know I have over a year but I look after my niece 7 days a week for about 9 hours a day..not a lot of planning time..

2007-01-11 07:00:12 · 18 answers · asked by eightysgurl04 2 in Weddings

This is a complicated story. First, I love my husband with all of my heart. We have been married for almost two years. The thing is, he doesn't love me and has admited this. He is wanting to see other girls, have an open relationship, but still be married to me. He says he is not against starting a family. He wants me to stay he wants me to be his wife but he doesn't love and and he doesn't like having sex with me. I am very limited on a budget so I cannot move out on my own. I don't have any family or friends that can help me. I can get a roommate who is a stranger but I am afraid of this as well. My husband is very responsible and makes a decent living. He takes very good care of me and I seldom ever go without. However, he cannot stop throwing these other women up in my face. What is your opinion?

2007-01-11 07:00:05 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been seeing this guy for almost a year and i have found through his email and text messages that he is writting this girl and constantly complimenting her and telling her to send him pics of her. and that he misses her. and when i asked him about it he said she is an ex of one of his best friends. and that his best freind wanted to know how she was doing and that he is just being nice because he thinks she wants to hear thoose things from him. so what should i do/

2007-01-11 07:00:04 · 14 answers · asked by robyngold1 1 in Singles & Dating

sometimes my friends call me a jew. what does it mean? is it an insult

2007-01-11 06:59:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She recieved a large amount of child support, had a new boyfriend helping with most of the bills and made good money with her job plus child support and left no college money, never helped with a car and I got walmart clothes(pocket tee's) while she drove a brand new car, ate out to dinner, all kinds of new shoe's and left me with cereal, top ramen and no spending money. Should I be able to sue for that child support.

2007-01-11 06:59:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to know what you think if a chubby guy aproached you or asked you out or maybe if you knew him and he was a good hardworking guy that was interested in YOU?Would you say no because of his weight? True answers ONLY!

2007-01-11 06:58:25 · 40 answers · asked by ????? 1 in Singles & Dating

My step-dad just got back home from another country a couple of weeks ago from a 6 year business trip. I haven't seen him since I was 8 years old. Anyways, I'm 14 and I am home schooled. My grandma used to come over to school me but my step-dad has taken her place since he is home off business. but the other day he was sick with a fever and after mom left for work he wanted me to lay down with him. I didn't think much about it and went in there to lay. He asked me to go get a wet rag for him for his fever. I went to the kitchen and got it for him and I came back and put it on his forehead. Then out of nowhere he said its time for a tickle fight, just to let you know im 14 and to old for that kind of stuff. but here is where it gets weird. He started tickleing the side of my hips but he started pulling my bottom into his pelvis area and I felt him squueze my butt kinda when he was tickling me.Should I tell my mom about? I feel unconformable about it but he might of been an accident.

2007-01-11 06:57:42 · 10 answers · asked by Emily W. 1 in Family

i miss ,y hasbend what should i do he is in london i am in pakistan?

2007-01-11 06:57:41 · 15 answers · asked by seina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i havent had it done yet

2007-01-11 06:57:28 · 17 answers · asked by jake0792 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 06:56:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been friends with my best friend's ex-boyfriend. And he likes me and i have a boyfriend. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two months. what should i do

2007-01-11 06:55:36 · 12 answers · asked by Angel 4 in Singles & Dating

Which would excite you more -- them knowing you were watching, or them NOT knowing?

2007-01-11 06:55:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 5 years and we are still very much in love. Recently, my husband was promoted and his company wants to send him overseas. I don't like this one bit. I hated when he went to see his brother and he was only gone a week. We interact all the time and I don't really have any friends. When he leaves, I'm bored out of my mind and I start going crazy. I know going overseas is a major opportunity but how could I convince him to tell his company that he's not able to go overseas. I know it sounds selfish of me but I literally go insane. Also, they give absolutely no advanced warning when they send their people overseas. They book the flight as soon as the person is notified. If they did send him, it'd be atleast 2 weeks before he could return...How should I go about asking him to stay and I don't want to hear that I just need to make friends so I'm not lonely. I simply can't.

2007-01-11 06:55:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what are some ways to get over that guy who broke my heart? any suggestions on things to do or places to go? songs to listen to or things to stay away from?

2007-01-11 06:55:07 · 9 answers · asked by Goldilocks 2 in Singles & Dating

If i said you had a beautiful body - would you hold it against me?

2007-01-11 06:54:43 · 8 answers · asked by RobStar 2 in Singles & Dating

for those of you who have concidered online dating and have caught yourself trying to meet men/women online.

2007-01-11 06:54:04 · 16 answers · asked by blake v 1 in Singles & Dating

Attended a wedding recently; the bridesmaids came down the aisle in long dresses, followed by an attendant that was in a dress similiar to the bridesmaids, but the dress was shorter. Even though this bridesmaid was immediately before the bride, she went to the end of the line of the bridesmaids. After the wedding, she left last and did not have a groomsman to walk with; she walked alone. No one at the wedding could explain this, but several had seen weddings like this before. Does anyone know what this person would be? Thanks.

2007-01-11 06:53:41 · 9 answers · asked by sgallery1953 2 in Weddings

iv heard that on the day of your wedding that you can legaly have your churchs/religons flag flown above the US flag. dose any one know about this? or have any idea where i might find out? thanks.

2007-01-11 06:53:34 · 6 answers · asked by jedidiaha 3 in Weddings

had a child with my ex boyfriend, we split up soon after my DD was born because of his drug use. He has been in and out of jail due to drinking and driving, drug use, leaving the state while on probation. He was in jail when my DD was born and for both her birthdays, he recently got out of prison a few months ago and within a week he was in jail for leaving the scene of an accident and he was also drinking. He has another court date coming up for that.He has made a few support payments, and we have an agreement for him to see he every sunday, we agreed on this because of his work schedule. Alot of those time he has been late or he dosen't show up at all. I am engaged to another man now and we have moved our plans around for him more than once. I have told him he need to start being on time and that we aren't going to accomadate him everytime, we have stuck to that and now he is saying that he is going to take me to court to get scheduled visitation With his drug use what will happen

2007-01-11 06:53:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not talking about a person who has food in his/her teeth or toilet paper on the shoe or some other thing that would warrant stares.

But just found yourself staring at somebody who you normally wouldn't think is that attractive, but he/she has something about him/her that interests you?

2007-01-11 06:53:33 · 3 answers · asked by Princess Purple 7 in Singles & Dating