Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

ok so i was jsut wonderin if it bothers a guy if a girl takes awhile to have an orgasm. im talkin maybe 20 min. for my case im muslim n have had this terrible thing happen to me. i was circumsized which makes it harder to have an orgasm n i dont even kno if its the real thing. my bf is really nice n everything n i love him very much it does not seem like he cares bout the circumsizin n the length of time it takes for me. i kno he loves me n he knows its more of an emotional thing for me anyways. i jsut get kinda insecure bout it sometimes like last nite he was fingerin me n i jsut faked it (the first tiem i ver did that) cuz i didnt think it was gonna happen. i was tired n too many things on my mind. girls..is that normal. i dunno n im shy too in bed so how do i let myself just go? yesterday i was on top but b4 i cud do anything he went on top n came real fast. guys n girls i really need ur advice on this one. only serious answers plz cuz this really makes me insecure bout myself.

2007-01-11 07:35:28 · 25 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this girl is really pretty and we do share some things in common. I dont want to blow this first date by coming on to strong so that part (keeping it cool) I already know. Anybody give me some suggestions for what to do tonight. I was thinking dinner then maybe a bar and shoot some pool but thats so average just like going to the movies. By the way we met on myspace.

2007-01-11 07:35:16 · 10 answers · asked by SCHMUCKY 3 in Singles & Dating

is it just be or do most men diss like that... im just tired of seeing a pancake butt with bootylicious on the back... and another thing i want to know if you dont like to see for me im getting tired of you parent dressing you 5 year old up like a damn hoochie why is she only 5 and wearing tank top shirts and tight a.s.s. pants... with CFM boots on...

2007-01-11 07:34:57 · 3 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 07:34:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he is for i cant get visa of uk i sleep alot and i am so week what should i do plz tell me some thing?

2007-01-11 07:34:52 · 6 answers · asked by seina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so heres the problem. I liked this girl and we hung out together with my friend, it is so obvious that she likes my friend and it really hurts me. My friend nos that i like her and said hes not sure wat to do. he want me to tell him wat to do, i dont want him to go out with her cuz it hurts me 2 much, but i dont want him to be unhappy. we talked about all this and he said our friendship is more important and he cares about me more then her, wat sud we do? i dont want to be friends with her anymore and i dont want to hang around her. If they start going out it wud kill me! how cud he do that 2 me! Help need advice

2007-01-11 07:34:35 · 13 answers · asked by razorsharpdut 2 in Friends

like im wonderin...
cause when i try to talk 2 dem
dey act scared

2007-01-11 07:34:12 · 17 answers · asked by Loni 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 07:33:36 · 10 answers · asked by Coche 4 in Singles & Dating

i really really like this woman however for some strange reason im thinking shes not over her ex that she went out with over 2years ago. im not making any moves on her what so ever till i find out because...well its wrong, iv wanted to speak about it to her but the thought of her throwing a wobbly is far to great and i dont want to loose what friendship we have left. any ideas throw them my way. you could change my life, who knows, thankyou, scott

2007-01-11 07:33:30 · 8 answers · asked by scott g 2 in Singles & Dating

I like a guy at my school and he has no clue i like him. he has a gf. so what should i do.

2007-01-11 07:33:07 · 11 answers · asked by Angel 4 in Singles & Dating

any ideas for a wedding menu. starter, main and pudding no fish, chocolate, mushrooms or cheese the wedding is in the uk in the summer

2007-01-11 07:33:06 · 17 answers · asked by ag 3 in Weddings

what attracts you to a man? the best answers will be published on a new website

2007-01-11 07:32:55 · 8 answers · asked by jimmythejock 2 in Singles & Dating

Mine is a total nightmare!!!
I feel like I can't lead a normal life without him trying to stick his nose in my business about who I date and where I go.
He only pays child support when he says he has the money (which has been a few months now) but my experiences would turn into a 500 page book! If anyone has a worse ex-husband than mine I will definately give you the 10 points in the morning!

2007-01-11 07:32:42 · 7 answers · asked by K-E-G 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 07:32:05 · 15 answers · asked by Little One 1 in Family

If you're in a serious relationship, do you have the right to know if another woman is calling your man? When I questioned my BF about someone's ##, he got very defensive & told me its none of my business. Of course the red flag went up! Why get defensive if you have nothing to hide? If you're not doing anything wrong, why not answer with the simple truth? On another occassion when I asked him if there was someone else because he was acting very distant with me. He responded: "think what you want & if you accuse me of being with someone, I will." He wants me to trust him but how can I trust him when he gives me a negative answer? His ommission of answering my question seems like he has a hidden agenda. Am I wrong to feel this way? Doesn't truth & honesty equal trust? I just can't understand why he treats me like **** when I'm honest, sincere & devoted to this man? He treats this relationship as if we're just dating. He doesn't take into consideration that we live together & have a son.

2007-01-11 07:31:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and a friend of mine have decided to take things to the next level. when we r together things are very well and we never argue or disagree on anything.she knows alot of guys and when we are away from each other she always seems to be making plans to hang out w/ other guys. she knows almost no females at all. i knew this from the get go, but now that we are going out it bugs me that she does that. she has guy friends visiting her at work and stuff, and she has admitted she has had commitment issues but now that she is w/ me that she says seems to be changing. im a jealous guy, and although normally this would steer me away from the person, have been compromising w/ her. my question is, am i wasting my time w/ her and do her habits make her more likely to cheat on me in the future? i have been thinking of dropping things but i like her alot and things have been goin well so far.

2007-01-11 07:31:28 · 25 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband were having a discussion about his mother and his daughters; and he was telling me how his family acts like they want to live his life. Then he turned to me and said that I do the same thing. I asked him to ellaborate and he wouldn't. What does that mean?

2007-01-11 07:31:11 · 10 answers · asked by stella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 07:31:10 · 13 answers · asked by Wayne H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if a guy spent alotta time w/a girl, but had 2 stop cus he got busy trying 2 run a business and she's busy w/skool, did he forget about her? is she still on his mind if they dont talk much anymore?

2007-01-11 07:30:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm assuming its far different than what makes a man cheat on his girlfriend. I'm familiar with all those reasons, but now I'm curious about the opposite sex's reasons for infidelity.

I write a blog dedicated to this topic, Cheating on Your Girlfriend. If you are curious on why men cheat or how they do it, read up:
http://360.yahoo.com/howtocheatonyourgirlfriend

2007-01-11 07:30:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend wanted to go to a strip club near us for their amateur night. she said she wanted money, she has enough money and a job so its not like shes starving to pay the bills or anything. anyways, we were talking last night about it, and i ended up getting a little mad and told her that it was tacky and a poor way to show off her intelligence. especially because shes taken many womens studies and women in power classes. i told her that stripping would be a bad way to show appreciation for all the women who have tried so hard to further women in society.
one of my friends said that she shouldnt do it, but said i was being too harsh and critical.
i need more opinions....im confused now if i was right for expressing my beliefs, or wrong in that i was being too critical?

2007-01-11 07:29:51 · 13 answers · asked by Caz 2 in Friends

what would be your best pick up line

2007-01-11 07:29:18 · 4 answers · asked by izzo808 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 07:28:55 · 6 answers · asked by Asian Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

he is a attorney..not great looking but we get along fine. sex is GREAT, we go out and dine and he so kiss my hand and makes me feel special..its the age thing...i am 56 and he is 33 but it does not seem to matter to him....is it my hang up

2007-01-11 07:28:31 · 31 answers · asked by mhhorse_1999 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfreind of 2 months recently broke up with me. In the beggining she liked me alot and i didnt as much. But as we got to know each other I started to like her more and more and she did less and less. Her freind told me that she broke up with me becasue I wasnt like showing enougth affection in the begging and she was like upset y. I apologized numerous times but she says she just wants to be friends. So like 2 weeks go bye and i aske her to hang out just as friends and she said that she was busy. I still really like her and care about her and will do anythin to get her back. . And i already said that I really care about her and nothing going through. I wish I can go back in time and do all things I didnt do .I miss her so much and cant stoip thinking about her. Is there any possiblity I can get her back. And if so what should I do

2007-01-11 07:27:37 · 8 answers · asked by babyv 1 in Singles & Dating

with former boyfriends and other guys she just went on a "couple" dates with (with physical relations involved)? Cause I think it's driving my crazy...

2007-01-11 07:27:35 · 8 answers · asked by JT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I work in a computer lab at my college. I am 23 years old and the girl that I kind of like is here right now! I want to talk to her, but I am kind of scared because we have only exchanged hello's when she comes and goes. Please give me some advice! Thanks!!!

2007-01-11 07:27:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do Women want?

2007-01-11 07:27:02 · 6 answers · asked by icantthink4155 2 in Singles & Dating

I seriously think these were designed by a woman...OMG

2007-01-11 07:26:59 · 12 answers · asked by Heather Cook 1 in Singles & Dating

If a girl(close friend) had feelings for you or really fancied you(she denied it-never told you)-----

Would it only became obvious after you told them you need to get over your feelings for them and you needed some time apart---not for good,only a short period.(due to you thinking she didnt see you in that way+you wanted to be an honest friend)

You were still in contact(after you told her u had feelings) UNTIL YOU ASKED FOR TIME APART

YOU WERE ONLY FRIENDS---THATS WHAT SHE SAID---NEVER A COUPLE

If the girl didn't have feelings for you/fancy you,surely she would have responded to your attempts to get in touch?Yes or No?

2007-01-11 07:26:05 · 10 answers · asked by roadtripman90 1 in Singles & Dating