with former boyfriends and other guys she just went on a "couple" dates with (with physical relations involved)? Cause I think it's driving my crazy...
2007-01-11 07:27:35 · 8 answers · asked by JT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Women can be just friends with guys, i know for a fact. However, if she has a sexual history with these fellas, you are right to be worried. We take our partners for life, and the past is past, but it's kinda hard to be it behind you if she continues to see them? Confront her with this, ask her how would she feel if you were seeing some old flames?? Call them friends as well, i am sure she would not like it..
2007-01-11 07:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is about trust, and I wonder if your wife has done something to break that trust with you. I think a certain amount of jealousy is expected, but if it becomes your every waking thought, then there is a real problem. I know this is the typical "communication" crap you hear about, but you need to talk to her. Tell her how you feel and why you feel that way. The result probably won't be pretty, and yes it might start an arguement or worse, but that is what has to be done or it will eat you alive inside until it does come out in the wrong ways and you could lose your wife for good.
2007-01-11 07:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should not do it. It's only asking for trouble. Lots of people will disagree with me, but let's face it, if you really love the person, you would not want them hanging out with someone they banged before. People only pretent to be OK with it so they can seem like the "cool" wife/husband. This type of behavior is not acceptable for a married person.
2007-01-11 08:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by lookinforanswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 03:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know...women can be friends with guys and go out with them, it doesnt mean they are sleeping with each other. Just cause she went out with a guy that she dated or even slept with doesnt mean she cant still be friends..ever hear of better friends than lovers? She could be completely over them sexually if the guys arent over her thats their problem. Give the benefit of the doubt. Have you tried going out with a female friend to see how she would feel?
2007-01-11 07:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by izzabella_74 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on whether your into the lifestyle. Whatever your wife's intent - I think the guy's intent is likely to be hoping for the right opportunity.
2007-01-11 07:39:25 · answer #6 · answered by Dan B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be pissed.
If my wife wanted to maintain friendships with old boyfriends I wouldn't like it either....
2007-01-11 07:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if it bothers you that she is screwing other guys.
2007-01-11 07:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋