So I work in a computer lab at my college. I am 23 years old and the girl that I kind of like is here right now! I want to talk to her, but I am kind of scared because we have only exchanged hello's when she comes and goes. Please give me some advice! Thanks!!!
2007-01-11 07:27:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say hello,
Introduce yourself and take it from there. Make her smile and laugh by using your sense of humour. Nothing Ventured, Nothing gained. Don't be shy talk to her. You are the master of your soul, the captain of your destiny. She won't bite. If she does, alrighty!
2007-01-11 07:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This brings back memories... OK, that being said, I'm going to give you sage advice from a 43 year old. Once upon a time I faced the same situation. I had spent many years through High School and college being intimidated by girls/women and afraid to express my interest for fear or rejection or ridicule. In the spirit of "If I'd Only Known Then What I Know Now" - many of those girls are more than willing to listen to a respectful expression of interest in getting to know them. A confident "Hi, I was wondering if you'd like to go for a cup of coffee" can lead to marriage... no fooling. It happened to me - and we've been happily married 20 years now. Don't be afraid - the worst that can happen is she says "no". OK. so? If she's not interested, she not interested... maybe the next one that catches your eye that way will say "Yes". But you'll never know if you don't ask.
2007-01-11 15:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Pundit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont!!!! I understand you think she is hot or whatever, but in the end it will not work. Either she will reject any advancement you make or she will accept and you will be stuck working with your chick or fighting all the time. In the end nothing good will come out of this.
but... your going to do it anyways even after my words of wisdom, so find out something she is interested in and bring it up.
2007-01-11 15:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by Stuey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you must be taking the same class, you certainly have something to talk about? It doesn't have to start out with, how about a date?? Just begin talking to her about something you have in common. If it goes easily enough, then who knows what you will be chatting about in a week or two?
2007-01-11 15:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the plunge ask her out for a cup of coffe or a drink! The worst thing that could happen is she'd say no.
2007-01-11 15:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mike calm down dude!first off,do you even know her name?just ask her if should like to go out for a bite to eat some time? if she says yes,keep up the conversation on the date! none of that awkward silence. dont be nervous,just ask her. you have to have confidence.
2007-01-11 15:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by JEFF S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww....that's cute. I think you should really just talk to her. I know a guy right now who is doing the same thing around me and I really wish he'd talk to me. Just say, "how are you doing?" and go from there
2007-01-11 15:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Purple 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she is cool as in cool enough that you like her you should go over talk to her, let her know you like her and see what happens but do this in a decent way
2007-01-11 15:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by kimesha carey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be like "hey, what's up?" to strike a conversation. ask her what she's doing. Then maybe if a conversation strikes ask her what her plans are for the weekend =]
2007-01-11 15:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by rosie_posie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first make eye contact and smile. casually go up to her and say hey i was just thinking about you. she'll ask what were you thinking then say i was just thinking of how i want t to know you better.
2007-01-11 15:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋