2007-01-11 07:34:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First you grieve and cry a lot, but it gets a little easier every day as time goes on. Start new habits and do new things that do not remind you of that time. After about a year or so you will be ready for a new relationship and it's surprising how satisfying that can be. You know what love is and you know what loss is. The new relationship is all the more sweeter because of that.
God bless!
2007-01-11 08:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look at it as getting over it, but look at it as GROWING through the pain and gaining wisdom from the experience.
PRAY, and PRAY some more. I thought I was going to die when I had to get divorced, but I found some inner strength, that was tucked away deep in my soul for just the ocassion. Definitely channel your energy to some positive activites.
2007-01-11 07:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by TracyBee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will take a long time. Allow yourself to grieve and go through all the grieving steps.
I would advise you not to rush into any relationships, but that's easier to say from this side of my life.
If you can, go to a divorce recovery group-I wish they had that when I got divorced.
Best of luck to you--you'll get there but it won't be easy
2007-01-11 07:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by autimom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just allow yourself to grieve for a while and then hit the dating scene with a vengeance. Good luck.
2007-01-11 07:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by MichiganRocks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get busy with work or with ur social life.
2007-01-11 07:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by space cowboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray
2007-01-11 07:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by confused 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋