ok so heres the problem. I liked this girl and we hung out together with my friend, it is so obvious that she likes my friend and it really hurts me. My friend nos that i like her and said hes not sure wat to do. he want me to tell him wat to do, i dont want him to go out with her cuz it hurts me 2 much, but i dont want him to be unhappy. we talked about all this and he said our friendship is more important and he cares about me more then her, wat sud we do? i dont want to be friends with her anymore and i dont want to hang around her. If they start going out it wud kill me! how cud he do that 2 me! Help need advice
2007-01-11 07:34:35 · 13 answers · asked by razorsharpdut 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i told him that i dont want u 2 be unhappy and if u want to go with her u can but i dont want to hear about it.
2007-01-11 07:42:22 · update #1
u no nothing wat we have been threw together and i was there for him lots of times wen he was deporessed and he was there for me. we have an amazing friendship and i dont want this to ruin it.
2007-01-11 07:43:44 · update #2
it werid to because we were friends in high school and then she out of no were invited me out and i brought my friend along. and no this happens.. i no theres other out there but ive liked her for over a year and it was hard to watch them get so close in the movie theater well i sat alone and watched.
2007-01-11 07:46:58 · update #3
tell both of them how you feel. a good friendship isn't worth giving up over some girl. but you dont want them to be unhappy with out eachother. tell them both how you feel and then see how you and they feel afterwards. maybe if they date you will get used to and and not mind anymore.
2007-01-11 07:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre just going to have to brush it off. Relax, it's just a crush. Because if you act like you don't want them together more than likely they're going to do it anyway and behind your back just because your making a big deal about it. Yea friendship does come first but it doesn't always work out that way and in the end you'll end up alone.
2007-01-11 07:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kristi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds condescending but GROW UP!!! Just because a girl likes your friend better than you doesn't mean that you need to end your friendship just because he pursues a relationship. Maybe he liked her too but was just afraid to say so because you "claimed her" first. There are many other women out there and in reality, if she's attracted to your friend, it's probably better that you find out now instead of dating her and her cheating on you with your friend.
2007-01-11 07:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by ~*~Feelin' Froggy~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the deal, you nor you friend can help who you are physically attracted to. If he likes this girl he can't help it any more than you can. I think he's trying to do right by you but he obviously likes her too. It sounds like she's not interested in you but wants your friend instead, so why not just let her be with your friend and stop holding them back because you don't like it because it ain't you. You dig? Find another girl to take your mind of this situation. There's more than one out there.
2007-01-11 07:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could he do WHAT to you? He said he won't date her because his friendship with you is more important and he cares about you more than her, and you're still complaining? Geez, what do you want?
It's not his fault the girl doesn't like you. And you can't make her like you. You're lucky you have a friend who's willing to let you dictate who he can and can't date. Sounds like you don't deserve him.
2007-01-11 07:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by EQ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly on one hand purely reason a guy stares at you doen't advise he likes you yet on the different hand that's kinda extraordinary he does purely stare at you properly locking eye touch is a sort of flirting how approximately next time he does this you purely stare returned dont spoil the stare see what happens
2016-10-07 00:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is suck but move on, deal with it, you will find a girl better than her. Let him to have her and see how it does. I know its suck for you to see like this but hey who knows you will find a better girl than her and you might feel good. Good luck
2007-01-11 07:38:02 · answer #7 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this will be a test of a true friend if he keeps his word and does not see her due to your friendship.
2007-01-11 07:40:04 · answer #8 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow it does suck. well hes a good ftiend to you, so i thnk that u should let him go out with her. he cares about you alot nd how you feel. i think that u should stART careing bout him too, let him goo out with her.
2007-01-11 07:40:05 · answer #9 · answered by vanessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he means your friendship he will not get out with this girl.
2007-01-11 07:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋