Which would excite you more -- them knowing you were watching, or them NOT knowing?
2007-01-11 06:55:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Them knowing I was watching. I would love someone to watch me and my husband having sex - a HUGE turn on.... I also like to videotape ourselves and watch it again...... But if I happened to fall upon someone doing it I would watch - hell I am curious I guess and if they didn't know it well they should shut their blindes lol :)
Great question!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-11 07:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Easy - them not knowing I'm watching.
Interestingly enough, people behave differently when they know they're being watched. If I were going to watch two people in that act, I would not want them to know I'm watching so I could witness what they were doing naturally.
Much like watching someone who's alone (donig whatever) and doesn't know he/she is being watched.
I once went out back, saw my nextdoor neighbor in her backyard. Fully dressed, just out there to do some gardening with her walkman on. She didn't realize I had stopped to say hi (she didn't hear me with the headphones on) as she started dancing with her rake and singing, "...anybody else... when I think of you I touch myself! la la la..." and was doing the whole finger on her booty thing. It was hysterically funny, but not to her when she spun around and realized I was laughing (tears were rolling down my face and I was sorry she saw me...) Well, OK, just for a moment.
2007-01-11 15:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by stevegoryan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This can be quite erotic with the right couples. I was in a relationship in which we all had sex together in the same room, and it's pretty f***ing hot. I would consider it again in my next relationship. I'm not into "swapping," just voyeurism (watching the others/doing it at the same time).
2007-01-11 15:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have most of my friends are very open guys and girls but yeah I have woken up at times and seen it happen in front of me but some times I don't know what to do cause I gots to go to the restroom and I don't want to mess it up for my boy.Or my homegirl! since there so into it at times maybe they want me to see but sometimes you also don't want anyone to see cause they all f^^k around on each other thank god I can keep secrets.Some of them yeah they want me to see it so I let it nothing wrong with that we all human need a little excitement at times right.Weather they know it or not watching that is.Agree with you on that KeeDee!
2007-01-11 15:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by tino 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
them knowing ... i have had couples watch me people watch me by them selves and all off that but i have to say there is nothing better then doing a chick when you know her friend is watching and doing herself... now that is a turn on...
2007-01-11 15:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by Godson 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
daily, I try to find some porn like that , sometimes it even loads fast enough to watch.
If they didn't know you are watching, its really spying and is NOT ok.
They could sue you for it I think.
If they know and agree , no problem, if the spectators were respectful and quiet, I wouldn't mind.
2007-01-11 15:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once I saw my roommate and his girl having sex in the backyard, under a blanket, but you could totally tell what they were doing...and yes, it kind of got me going!
2007-01-11 14:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by Adrian Wapkaplett 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i love to watch couples having sex. a g/f and I love to watch each other masturbate, too - it's SO HOT wanting to touch, and touching yourself like you want to touch her.......
2007-01-11 15:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Heather Cook 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
them knowing
2007-01-11 14:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by mich_teddybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably them knowing. I suppose it depends on my mood.
2007-01-11 15:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋