I want to know what you think if a chubby guy aproached you or asked you out or maybe if you knew him and he was a good hardworking guy that was interested in YOU?Would you say no because of his weight? True answers ONLY!
2007-01-11 06:58:25 · 40 answers · asked by ????? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldnt know until I met him. Each person needs to be given consideration as an individual. I have dated men some people would call homely but, their personalities made them attractive to me. I sure wouldnt rule out someone because they said they were heavy.
2007-01-11 07:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by cici 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How big are we talkin about? A lot of guys say they have "athletic" builds when they are 20 pounds overweight. I'm wondering if chubby translates to 100 over.
Aside from that, most of the guys I've dated or were drawn to were on the heavy side. My best buddy is a little over 6 ft and 260 pounds (and he works on ranches all day building fence and whatnot so he is NOT lazy despite what some snotty girls think), most of my past boyfriends have carried extra weight (results of too muich home cookin and weekend beer). I'm a little more comfortable with them than the thin guys.
Now if the guy needs my 40DD bra more than I do, I find that a turnoff. When you reach the point that people can hear you breathing heavily on the phone, you've passed chubby and gone into the unhealthy range.
2007-01-11 07:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes and i have married a guy whose a little over weight he's 5"8and close to 300 pounds, i love extra weight on men, look at the singer Reuben(the american idol) he's overweight. I'm 5'2 and was about 120 pds when i marrried him
I like big men. You make a small woman like me feel protected and when we cuddle its as if i'm being held by a big ol teddy bear. don't let these guys out here intimidate you or these women who don't give you a chance. Big Men need love too :)
2007-01-11 07:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by ohsosexy26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go lose some freaking weight. It will help not only girls' perceptions of you, but your own self esteem as well.
This is coming from a fellow fatty. I've lost about 35 pounds over the course of the last month, and it shows. People treat me better, girls will turn their heads to get a second look, i am rejected so much less when i go up and talk to women. It's stupid and it's superficial, but THAT IS THE WORLD WE LIVE IN. A lot of girls are not going to go after you because your first impression is "i am a fatass", and that's not attractive.
If you think personality can make up for it, you are dead wrong. But lose some weight and you will lose a lot of problems, the least of them being problems with girls.
2007-01-11 07:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by John C 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You said to tell you the truth.... Well for me I don't think that I could ever date a guy that big... I am a small person and I am not saying that I want a stringbean but I don't want a chubby guy neither.. I just can't see myself doing that... And please don't think that I'm shallow or anything like that because I'm really not.. But everyone has there types..
2007-01-11 07:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No i wouldnt say no because of his weight. U should look what on the inside not on the out Just because he's big doesnt mean he's not a nice person.
2007-01-11 07:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gotta tell you that I'm turned off by obese men. Overweight is okay, especially if the gut is a bit under control, but obese...no. It won't work for me. That's just me. A lot of women love heavy men. But I run 10 miles a day, swim regularly, and train for marathons, so I'd like a man who at least has enough self-confidence to keep himself in decent shape. Not saying he has to run a marathon with me, but...decent shape.
2007-01-11 07:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would never say no because of his weight. In fact, I prefer a heavier man. I can't stand a thin man(no offense). Don't be insecure about your weight because I think you'll find that a lot of women find you attractive.
2007-01-11 07:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by gapeach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would prolly tell him yes if I liked him as a person. If was mean i would say no.
but my boyfriend is big and I love him all the more for it because hes confident but not cocky.
2007-01-11 07:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by kreepyemily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 6' tall and weighs close to 300 pounds. He has always been chubby. He is my bear!
2007-01-11 07:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by Jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋