I've been in this relationship for three years and i love him to death but we're growing apart and i don't know what to do. please help!!! the worst part is...we're engaged!!!
2007-01-11 06:49:14 · 10 answers · asked by oNeHoTmOmA2B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u luv him deeply there is no question of going apart....if u love him u'll fight till your end to keep the relationship.Find out the reason why is this happening and try to sort it out.Since you are a woman you have to compromise and be strong,after all he's your own.Prove him that you are the best person in his life and nobody will be able love him more than you.But if you think he's going wrong somewhere which is unbearable or unforgivable then I would ask you not to be weak and just move on with your life because there are loads of beautiful things in this life.Love your parents,treasure your inner talents but always keep the love in yourself.All the best!
2007-01-11 07:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by jrom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to end the relationship - if there is a chance that the wedding planning and all the hustle is keeping you apart then slow it down and simplify. Maybe seek couples counseling to get through this stress. Engagements and wedding planning is the worst part of a new marriage - try getting away for the weekend for just time alone and if it is apparent it is over just give him the ring quietly when you return home from the trip-he will understand. Hope it works out!
2007-01-11 14:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a 7 year relationship, and we grew apart. We were together for all of our 20's. We did grow apart. We talked about it together and knew we were feeling to same way. So, it was very hard, but we broke up. It has been 2 years we still talk a couple of times a year and she is happy in a new relationship now! I know I will always have love for her, we are just not in love. It will all work out, good luck!!!!
2007-01-11 14:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by Rob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on your relationship. Go to counseling if you need to. You don't have to grow apart. A relationship isn't just going to magically sustain itself. It may seem that way in the movies and romance novels but that is pretend. Relationships require a lot of work - just like a garden. Nothing good grows without some time and effort and some knowledge.
2007-01-11 14:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow hunny maybe you should talk to him an not us see how he feels and try to figure out what is tearing you apart from each other and if its things that cant be fixed then move on but you do need to talk to him because he deeply loves you two and he deserves at least a conversation
2007-01-11 14:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same position. We're just not engaged, we have a drug problem and i think that she is doing drugs again. Sorry i cant answer your question, just wanted to let you know that i relate to what you are saying. Best of luck.
2007-01-11 14:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by _DestroyingAngel_ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you going to break up with him rather than trying to become close again?
2007-01-11 14:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, when you really love someone it is hard to let go just tell him you think you should go your seperate ways, but you have to be strong when you tell him. then after cry until you fell better
best of luck!!!!
2007-01-11 14:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by Michaela K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a difficult situation maybe you can talk with him and ask him about what is he feeling right now
2007-01-11 14:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by susanarng 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sleep with his best friend
2007-01-11 14:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by Danny G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋