Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

We were drinking and it was dark but I'm sure you can imagine my look of horror when the woman I thought I was making love to opened the closet door. Boy, was that embarrassing!

2007-01-11 11:25:39 · 9 answers · asked by E_Soup 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 22 and just had my second child six weeks ago. My problem is my husband. He was extremely jealous and insecure when I was pregnant, accusing me of using my mom or my cousin as an alibi to cover up cheating, and going through my phone. He would accuse me of cheating at work, or with men that he saw in our apartment complex (there are over 100 units.) He was ok for a while, but now that I have Post Partum depression, he has started up again. If I am crying, he says that it's because I have cheated and now feel guilty. If I express feelings of worthlessness or failure (all a part of PPD), he says that I don't want the kids because I didn't have them with a black man (he's half white/mexican, I'm black). I try to give him info on PPD to read, but he refuses to believe that it's a real illness and threatens to leave if I don't "get over it". How can I get through this? I've attempted suicide 3 times. I'm tired of being accused of cheating and being insulted when I am most vulnerable.

2007-01-11 11:25:30 · 14 answers · asked by rtobor84 3 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl and I started dating about a month after she broke up with her Ex. I was concerned that maybe I might be the rebound guy. Anyway just about 2months of dating she said that she hadn't gotten over her EX. To she might have to stop seeing me for a while. She claims she she can see herself falling in love with me. But before she can get over ex, she will always hold back. I dont know what to do because she keeps texting me everyday to see how I'm doing. I dont understand. It is really affecting me. I am at a point of crying. Yes I said it! Crying. What must I do?

2007-01-11 11:24:02 · 14 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been going out for one month I thought everything was fine. We don't get to see each other often because I have an internship (opportunity in a life time for my future) that I have to take very seriously. He understands that but complains that I don't make time to go see him (mind you he has never come to visit me, i do all the visiting (live in different towns 1hr away)). So last night we are talking on the phone he says that I never make time to go see him and because of that he sees the realtionship going nowhere and suddenly hangs up the phone. When I call him back he is like yeah delete my phone number and am going to do the same. I mean I like him and all but he seems to be self centered and not interested in supporting my dreams. So what you guys think?

2007-01-11 11:24:01 · 21 answers · asked by Chicka 1 in Singles & Dating

to be with anither guy

2007-01-11 11:23:58 · 23 answers · asked by hotlady002 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i fell in cyber love with a girl who`s happilly maried,
oh well maybe later i will have some vegetable soup!

2007-01-11 11:23:40 · 8 answers · asked by qwerty 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, my very beloved boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me about 3 months ago. But, here's the problem, I can't get over him!!!! I mean, we still talk on the phone and at school but it doesn't feel the same! he seems fine with it and he's moved on to other girls. I've tried finding guys to attract my attention and keep it there but i always end up thinking of my ex!!!

What do i do?!?!
signed,
Moping in Maine

2007-01-11 11:22:37 · 7 answers · asked by Jenny S. 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel that I'm mean and I'm losing all my friends.

2007-01-11 11:22:08 · 34 answers · asked by Blondie 1 in Friends

well my mom hasnt let me out of this house 4 2 whole weeks...we do nothin at all.....then when i try 2 b nice she gets all mad......is she tryin 2 push me away & hate her...or is she tryin 2 protect me from somethin?....if she wants me 2 go out n the real world wouldnt she let me go out & explore it?....or am i just b-n 2 hard on her & me?

2007-01-11 11:22:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what are some funny pickup lines like

"If i told you, u had a nice body, would you hold it against me?"

2007-01-11 11:22:04 · 11 answers · asked by Antwaan M 5 in Singles & Dating

i am chinese, 18, love to shop but barganing is way fun, a little ditzy, wears makeup, figureskates, plays piano

2007-01-11 11:21:31 · 3 answers · asked by help! I need advice!! 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone ever had rebound sex after a long term relationship ended? Did help you forget about your ex? What happened in the end?

2007-01-11 11:21:08 · 28 answers · asked by forgot my real name 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 11:20:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 11:19:48 · 34 answers · asked by nyko2099 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing a guy exclusively for 3 1/2 months, and I recently referred to him as my "boyfriend." He got quiet and mentioned that it's been a long time since anyone referred to him in that way. He says he doesn't like "labels." I don't get it. We're exclusive, we're not seeing anyone else, we even exchanged holiday gifts, and he's meeting my friends and I'm meeting his. To me, this is looking, smelling and sounding like a relationship. What gives? Is he still interested in me? Or does he just see me as a friend with benefits?

2007-01-11 11:19:40 · 22 answers · asked by x_filequeen 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 11:19:21 · 13 answers · asked by help! I need advice!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a well known DJ in my area and have been asked to do a high school formal. My girl friend, who i have been with for just about 2 years, has invited me to go with her to the dance. She doesn't want me to DJ, but i would like to. The school was my first client as a DJ and they are also my biggest, and i don't want to lose them by telling them i can't do it then show up at the dance. I don't know what to do i'm torn between the two. Please help.

2007-01-11 11:18:59 · 3 answers · asked by Dave 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been really good friends with some one who has been in the public eye for a while. our moms were good friends, i also did some makeup etc for the people on the show was on. just recently he and his girlfriend of three years broke up and he has been showing interest in me. what should i do?

2007-01-11 11:18:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cuz i hear ppl that r 11 & saying "i have a BF" or like "we`ve been going out lately" what does that mean too ? cuz I`ve heard of school dating but neverr got what it ment. could u help ? cuz they`re also sumtimes like " i broke up w/him" and IM confused cuz my dad is like yea BF @ 12 and mom is like yea 16.( they r divorced ) which one should i pick ? IM just really confused right now....

2007-01-11 11:17:14 · 11 answers · asked by I hate pink 3 in Singles & Dating

My last two relationship they cheated on me and its hard for me to have trust in my relationship now because I was hurt twice and it hard to
have trust in my man because of the last loser.
I know its not fair to hold that on him because of them. when he do little thing like not answer his cell phone sometime when I call ,I stared thinking crazy. He tell me he not doing nothing wrong. We always do thing together and be together its just it hard to trust. I need a way to get pass what happen to me in the past and have trust in him.

2007-01-11 11:17:08 · 6 answers · asked by msredbonel1 2 in Singles & Dating

She now says i can only visit her once a week.

2007-01-11 11:17:07 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is my first love , but come to find out he really didnt love me. He said some really cruel things to me and he cheated on me because I would not let him sleep with me when he wanted to and take care of him

2007-01-11 11:16:42 · 7 answers · asked by baby cakes 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 11:16:29 · 9 answers · asked by Khakeru 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am the executor of my Nanas will, that is what she wanted & put into her will. I took care of my Nana, she lived w/me for awhile and I was at her apartment every other day taking her shopping & cleaning & doctors, etc. I took off of work to take her places she needed to be. When she fell I was the one who called 911 & was there the whole night at the hospital & everyday till she passed away 10 days later. My sister came on the day she died, not any time before. That is what my Nana hung on for was for her to come say goodbye & by the time she did my Nana was comatose, hospice was there more than my sister. She never came excet holidays. My Nana was semi wealthy & left me with 75% of her assets & my sister 25%. My sister is saying that I coerced my Nana, made her give me more. She has hired lawyers & is taking tis to court. I did not spend XMas w/my family could not be by her w/out wanting to kill her. Same with upcomin ones. No 1 will say anything 2 her. What should I say 2 my family

2007-01-11 11:16:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-11 11:16:03 · 25 answers · asked by LovelyMe 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for two years, and he still respectful and kind. I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend, and we have made some great memories together. I am 100% sure that I love him, but lately I have been having doubts about our relationship. He's gone a lot because our colleges are 2 hours away from each other, and when we see each other its amazing. He was gone for almost a month, and I got used to a life without him, but I still love him very very much. he makes me so happy. For some reason I just don't feel the same enthusiasm, the butterflies are gone, and I don't feel the need to hang out and talk all the time. Is it just me wanting a little bit of extra space since we've been together for so long? Why am I having these sudden doubts? Am I over analyzing everything? Do I need to just go with the flow? Is the newness just wearing off? Is this a phase? Does every serious relationship go through this?

please and thank you for all of your support

2007-01-11 11:15:01 · 12 answers · asked by Manda * 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you deal with TRULY loving someone that is a different religion and both parents don't agree with the relationship just due to religion...and the one you love wouldn't convert and you wouldn't as well?

2007-01-11 11:14:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-11 11:14:21 · 5 answers · asked by sasmallworld 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 11:14:09 · 7 answers · asked by dealbreaker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this boy at school thats one year younger than me that i really like alot but he is dating not only one of my friends but also is friends with someone im good friends with. what should i do?

2007-01-11 11:14:07 · 23 answers · asked by chassidy h 1 in Singles & Dating