2007-01-11 11:14:09 · 7 answers · asked by dealbreaker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all talk to them.
2007-01-11 11:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this boils down to a matter of trust.
Do you trust your partner?
1. Yes.
Then stop this nonsense. Talk to a friend about it.
2. No.
Then confront your partner.
If it's #2 then you need to let us know more about what the partner is doing and what he or she says in explanation to it.
I don't think you've told us enough to help you.
2007-01-11 19:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by DearAbby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wise to confront them about the on-line discretion's. Ask the hard questions: How long has this been going on? Why are you doing this? Do you plan on continuing to do this? Do you understand how this is affecting me? Do you care that this is affecting me? It is okay to speak up about this issue if you have valid proof that your suspicions are true.
2007-01-11 19:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by pjames302 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell I tell him about it. He plays Spades and Dimoneo's online and it seems every single woman in those rooms on yahoo feel the need to flirt with any man. So I let him know how it makes me feel. He's always honest with them and tells them he's not interested and that he's married but they continue on. And frankly if he feels the need to leave me for some hussy online then all the power to him just means he wasnt mine to begin with
2007-01-11 19:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by **Damn its cold up here** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its a guy looking at porn get over it thats shat guys do...if its a female and u suspect her of talking to someone online ask her about it, not in a confronting matter or argument just ask and tell her "u only worry becuase u love her so much and would hate to have your heart broken", she cant get mad.
2007-01-11 19:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by mrs.wright 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You probably shouldn't be with someone you cannot trust in the first place. Once you find the proof, I am afraid you will have to dump him.
2007-01-11 19:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by ilfo59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as they are not having physical contact whats the problem. you must also take responsibilty for your part in the matter. have you been sexually closed minded or unavailable. if so then you must ask yourself if you want to try be more considerate, or is it over?
2007-01-11 20:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by reno_tony_casino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋