Cuz i hear ppl that r 11 & saying "i have a BF" or like "we`ve been going out lately" what does that mean too ? cuz I`ve heard of school dating but neverr got what it ment. could u help ? cuz they`re also sumtimes like " i broke up w/him" and IM confused cuz my dad is like yea BF @ 12 and mom is like yea 16.( they r divorced ) which one should i pick ? IM just really confused right now....
2007-01-11 11:17:14 · 11 answers · asked by I hate pink 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It can be hard about thinking when you should be ready for a boyfriend. I think that about age 13 is good. But if your mom doesn't want you to have one yet its OK. Just ask her about it and tell your mom that you are mature enough for this big step. And dating doesn't necessarily mean that your boyfriend-girlfriend. It just means that your giving this guy a chance. And breaking up is hard too. But that is a different topic. Don't be confused, if you feel ready, go for it!
2007-01-11 11:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by toriii<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Mom of 3.Young aduts when they have a crush are like dating at school and calling each boy friend and Girlfriend they date at school and call eachother and then have suprvised dates Like school dances.I won't let my daughter Date till she is 16 my son is 21 and I had the same rules with him I also have an 11 year old.
2007-01-11 19:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the age old question ??? and the answer is not easy! a bf is a committment of maturity and trust at ur age u want to be noticed and loved ( seperated parents is a bummer) u can easly over react and seek affection else ware. My sugestion is to stay single but go out and make friends. No sex. no commitment yet. ok good luck.
2007-01-11 19:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
11 and 12 is really young. Its basically the same thing as when you are like 8 and have a BF/GF.
2007-01-11 19:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating means nothing when you're 11 or 12 or 13. trust me. if you want it to mean nothing, go ahead and date. if you actually want it to mean something, wait til high school before you date. you won't know what i mean until you're there, SERIOUSLY, i know it's hard to understand from your point of view. but high school is so much different that everything you did in middle school really seems juvenile even if it seemed perfectly natural at the time. i woulnd't recommend dating unless you want it to be really casual...if you want ANYthing serious ANY time soon...wait.
2007-01-11 19:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by fireflower413 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to jump into boy friends mush right now and get your feelings hurt when the guy finally talks you into bed so that he satify's his ego and tell his freeinds how good it was and make you feel like dirt...fvck that.
Your better than that. have a boyfriend fine, but he gets no further than first base or he can play with e New York Mets that lost anyway!
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2007-01-11 19:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ppl r really going out now at a young age...i went to the elementary school the other day to pick up my lil brothers and sister and there was this lil boy in about kindergarden and he was talkin to his dad like "yeah i dumped my gf today after i kissed her on the mouth" (i would hope not making out but yeah)
2007-01-11 19:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You are confused! I would answer your question but I can't be bothered to try and read your writing even though you are using a computer. Try learning English before worrying about boys.
2007-01-11 19:21:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fourteen at the earliest. Sixteen is about right. If you are eleven, enjoy your friends and have fun in groups. There will be plenty of time to date later. Enjoy your youth!
2007-01-11 19:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're 11, dont worry about boys right now they're trouble...wait til you're older...go with 16+
2007-01-11 19:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by magickitty0621 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋