He is my first love , but come to find out he really didnt love me. He said some really cruel things to me and he cheated on me because I would not let him sleep with me when he wanted to and take care of him
2007-01-11 11:16:42 · 7 answers · asked by baby cakes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well seems all he wanted was a piece and he didn't get it so he dumped you. That it's self should be enough reason to just get him out of your life and mind. Because it's creul when a guy does that, and also it might been good that you have found out now and know how he is. Next time you see him just ignore him. ANd if he makes up rumors about you, hey why not make one about him and do it where it hurts. SOmething like he couldn't get it up unles you spanked him first, something funny and degradeing will fix him.
2007-01-11 11:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep thinking of how much a jerk he is and all the things he put you thru and it will get easier. Not all guys are like this so don't let him ruin your thoughts about guys. The right one will come along someday and then you will wonder just what you ever saw in this ex. ;o) hang in there and smile ;o)
2007-01-11 19:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay baby you are not the first to go through this and you will not be the last. I have went through that. I am going through that right now. I just have not put him out yet. and it have been 8 years and a child. The only thing I can tell you is pray and ask God for strenght.
2007-01-11 19:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
been down that road. all i can say is try to forget about him. i know its hard, but someday you'll find someone else that treats you better. i know - i has happened to me and now i have been in a better serious relationship. but you should try to get over it cos like the saying goes, more fish out in the sea.
2007-01-11 21:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by sweetaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, i feel your pain. There is no way to make it heal faster. I have almost same story except yours IS worse. I thought i'd get over him(is it possible to get over 1st bf?!?!?!) and it took MONTHS. don't let him hurt you again, there are better guys out there for us! *hugs*
2007-01-11 19:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl. im sorry this is happening to you. he's a jerk for leaving u thats such a lame excuse! whew what a loser...try reading a book titled 'Its called a breakup because its broken' it tremendously helped me and my bestfriend go thru our breakup and see the relationship for what it REALLY was. go to ur nearest bookstore now!
2007-01-11 19:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by aishah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know gal, it's the life nd what all life is abt, so just enjoy the moment ya live in nd forget the past nd don't look for the future.... nd for sure listen to the NOTHING ELSE MATTERS of METALLICA band... it really help ya nd helped me nd lots of others out there...
2007-01-11 19:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋