Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

Ok well there is this guy at my school and I really like him and last Halloween he said that he liked me. But, the next day he said that he didn't want to date inside of his "friendship circle." Now ever since December he has been acting really nice and babyish. He has also been going out of his way to be with me. When we do walk together (which is most of the time) he is touching me in some way weather it is just shoulder to shoulder or him right behind me depends on how he is feeling. Everyone I talk to says that he flirts with me non- stop and I apparentally flirt right back. Now whenever I'm doing something he wants to know what and if I'm gone somewhere he asks where as soon as he sees me. And in our Lit. class we got new seats but our teacher only assigned of them. I was one that was assigned. He wasn't but he sat next to me rather than any of his friends. And finally he trusts me with everything he doesn't trust his friends with.

2007-01-11 11:56:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you are dating you do really fun things in the bedroom --- anything we want --- you give ---but once the ring in on your hand --- it all stops? I have talked to my friends iand the cenus is that this is true --- what gives?

2007-01-11 11:54:40 · 29 answers · asked by brainfreeze007 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am having a difficulty understanding my BF, I dont want to losse him, now he is saying we will have to meet 1st before finally say LOVE,

2007-01-11 11:54:17 · 7 answers · asked by Khakeru 1 in Singles & Dating

I've heard one is better than the other. Why?

2007-01-11 11:53:47 · 11 answers · asked by oneladyice1 3 in Singles & Dating

I am married but fell in love with another man about 2 years ago. Our relationship ended after 6 months and we are trying to remain friends. The relationship was purely online, which sounds silly I know but we did talk on the phone a lot and got really close. My husband knows and wasn't real concerned about it to be honest, we sort of have an understanding that as long as we don't have sex with someone else then do whatever we want otherwise. Still I truly want to remain friends with this person as I truly do care about him. He did hurt me but I have gotten past that. Still I love him so much it hurts but I want to change that into a close friendship type love and I can't seem to. Any advice?

2007-01-11 11:53:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 11:53:14 · 8 answers · asked by Taylor G 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do we fight
Chanel or Prada
Who cares
Why do we fight
skin is skin
its dark and its light
money is nothing
in 100 years no one will say
she didn't have a expensive purse
he didn't have a abercrombie polo
why do we care
we judge
and judge
who cares
lets mind our business
help out people
be nice
go back to inoncence
we kill over belief
all our beliefs stress god, love and peace
why dont we listen
i love you
yes
you are great
i dont care what you have done
what you said
did
i love you
i forgive you
i forgive you
war does
nothing
words kill more
than guns
so learn to love
forget
and forgive

2007-01-11 11:52:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi guys. I am really looking for serious advice right now. My wife and I have only been married for two months and cant seem to agree on anything. Our families are complete opposites, and neither of us can stand the other persons familiy. She agreed to alot of things before we got married, and now it seems like she wants to back out. I don't know what to do. She thinks its okay when she gets upset to lay her hands on me. Help!

2007-01-11 11:52:10 · 12 answers · asked by Jeremy V 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am kind of lost on the issue..I am not sure if this situation is something I should worry about or not. My husband watches porn every so often behind my back and if I am there and I don't feel like having sex. I've asked him to stop several times but he wont. I even blocked the porn channel with a code and he somehow figured out the code and changed it. He will not give it up! He doesn't constantly watch it, but enough to make me mad. I am still young and attractive so I don't know why he is resorting to other pleasure. It is so important to him that there would be nothing that I could say or do to make him stop. Is this a problem? I am not going to want to have intercourse every time he asks me to and I don't think I should have to worry about him threatening me with porn if I don't.

2007-01-11 11:51:35 · 58 answers · asked by wifey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My neighbor is an attractive, blond women in her mid-thirties. She has one young daughter. We are good friends and often chat, borrow things etc all very friendly. Her husband works constantly, is never at home and is very un-attentive to his family generally. Thier home is un-tidy because of this and I can see both she and her daughter are very unhappy. I'd like to ask her (& daughter) out for lunch or take them to the beach because they do not get this sort of treat. I believe they have financial problems also. If I do this, maybe it will be read the wrong way? Should I ask or just sit by and do nothing? I am 40, ok financially and have time on my hands and like her company but obviously don't want to cause issues. I just feel they need some good times also not constant boredom.

2007-01-11 11:51:33 · 9 answers · asked by robjoss 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Him and I had a rough rocky start but, I miss being married ! Should I contact him to see atleast how is he doing ??
I always wonder is he married ?? Does he have any kids yet ??
Does he even think of me? What do you suggestion?Where do I go from here is he even still married to me ? How do I find out?

2007-01-11 11:50:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So-- there are no worries within this one, i'm simply looking for a creative way to ask my girlfriend of 6 months to prom. Yes, it's guaranteed that she'll say yes-- but, i'm looking for a cute/ creative way to make her feel super special, and to give her something to brag to her friends about. Thanks!

Also, she's having to take a lot of weekend trips-- so, I need things to include/ do in/ for a care package-- just so that she knows i'm thinking of her, and so that she has something to know that i'm wishing her the best while she's gone.

2007-01-11 11:49:46 · 21 answers · asked by adam82588 1 in Singles & Dating

im in 8th grade and my friend is going out with this guy. he goes really fast in the relashionship and with every girl he goes out with he does it (have sex) with them and im worried because she didnt even mean to go out with him in the first place. what should i do

2007-01-11 11:49:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

does the sight of a mans penis scare or disgust most women, or do they find it as facinating as we men do a womens vagina?

2007-01-11 11:49:40 · 27 answers · asked by sonny a 1 in Singles & Dating

my freinds and i when we get to talking about sex they always call me a freak just because i would give a ********, try anal sex, have a three some and i have dirty thoughts and ideas more than they do.
and also when they have questions about sex, i can always answer them. i dont sleep around or anything but im not a virgin either.and i dont consider sex a special love thing like most girls do. so i tell them when i get married and my husband wants to bring in another person into the bedroom, i would be ok with it.coz i would want to do the same and i wouldnt mind if he goes to strip clubs or anything.does this make me a freak?

2007-01-11 11:49:03 · 37 answers · asked by *~$The 1 nd onlii shawty$~* 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is very shy. every time a conversation starts im the one to start it. i know he loves me because he is always jelous when im talking to another guy . i really love him but i just can't take his shyness. what can i do??????????????/ please help me i need this relationship to build strong. I LOVE HIM AND I CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM. HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-11 11:49:02 · 7 answers · asked by angel16 1 in Singles & Dating

He has been leaving a lot more lately, and coming home looking nervous or happy..Sometimes when i talk to him on the cell phone, i either hear soft music or loud background noises(Such as crowds), but most of the time it is soundless.When he comes home sometimes he smells like perfume or a candle scent.I DID hear him talking on the phone, and it was a HUGE clue that he was cheating..Telling the person on the phone "I love you baby bye bye".When he leaves to work he always says short i love you's or doesn't say it at all.He wasn't acting like the man i married at all.We've been together for 1 year and 4 months, and i am beginning to think i should not of married him..Should i be invading his privacy looking for clues?Or should i tell him straight in the face if he is seeing another women?

2007-01-11 11:49:02 · 40 answers · asked by . 2 in Marriage & Divorce

its a guy of couse

2007-01-11 11:47:34 · 31 answers · asked by babe zanay 1 in Singles & Dating

Im looking for one of my grandmother's high school friends... she was in Rochester,New York and I am looking for a Victorica McMillian. She attend Monroe High School, Rochester,NY. The information that I have on her is... She was attending Monroe High School, she lived with her brother and his wife( her mother died at a young age), during the years at the school a guy name Robert Hoover had a crush on her, the year was 1967 and they(my grandmother and her) in the eighth grade, her nickname was Vickie. If you can help me in any way please email me back mikiegirl04@yahoo.com thank you

2007-01-11 11:46:34 · 4 answers · asked by mikiegirl04 2 in Friends

His Aunt, my best friend at work,(not anymore). She talked me into introducing me to her nephew. We hit it off. She got weird. Told lies about trust issues and that I would hurt him, couldn't believe anything I say. I keep telling my boyfriend she is not friendly to me anymore. He finally tells me what was told so that it would get back to him. I cried and cried. It was all lies. Well his past is filled with cheating girlfriends and cheating wife. He soon starts acting like he's half mad at me or something. He soon starts showing a little less affection to me. I constantly initiate for us to talk , go to his Aunts house and make her tell him she lied. He agrees to go but then the aunt cancels. That should have told him something. I am not a person that fights in relationships but he has always argued in his. I fight back when he accuses me anymore, I am tired of trying to talk to a brick wall. I still love him very much. Every move I make he thinks is suspicious. There is so much more.

2007-01-11 11:46:10 · 7 answers · asked by Faithful 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 11:45:11 · 18 answers · asked by x/x|xM!c#@3Lx|x\x 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok os theres this guy and ive liked him since september. he found out that i lied him but he didnt do n.e. thing. but now im getting closer to him(friend wise) and im starting to think he likes me. he always smiles at me and we talk all the time. imn math i sit next to him and he always takes quick glances at me. idk what to do.

Girls-has this ever happened to you? what did you do about it?

Guys-what are some ways you flirt or let a girl know you like her with out actually telling her

Gyus and girls- help any advice you can give will b great.

2007-01-11 11:44:37 · 7 answers · asked by K 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 11:43:46 · 5 answers · asked by Ladyemme 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that someone asks a question, and others answers the question with a commit or a answer, that have NOTHING at all to do with what the person asked...are these people that dumb, that they can not understand what they are reading???

2007-01-11 11:43:40 · 7 answers · asked by gators gutt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it is normal for a 23 year old guy like me to be virgin?
I am just not very liked by girls, it's like they see right through me, like I'm invisible... Maybe I'm ugly...
Would a girl be imbarassed to go out with me?
Do you think that this is the reason that I'm invisible for them (I mean they are imbarassed to look at me because I'm ugly)...?
I did go to the gim until the end of the summer and when it was warm outside (until winter) I used to do jogging 1 or 2 times a week.
My height is 172 cm, my weight is 57 kilos, I have brown eyes and hair. I'm a little bit "up-tight" or shy with women.

Do you think I should wait untill I get marry (if I'll ever get married, more exactly... but even if it happenes, that will not happen in the next 2 or 3 years... so I'll probably be 27 years old by that time)...?

2007-01-11 11:43:34 · 33 answers · asked by iDontKnowWhatToDo 2 in Singles & Dating

I was at work, & my usually WONDERFUL, sweet bf called me at some point & said he was out with friends and would call me right back. By the time I got off work, he hadn't called...so when my friend who lives right near my bf called, I went over there to wait and to hang out a little.
My bf then calls me, and acts mad that I didn't call HIM...blah blah, I go over there later, and long story real short, he starts yelling at me and comparing me to old gfs and saying that I always call and I didn't, and not even LISTENING to me. I was just giving him space to chill with his friend! And I've never been yelled at like that by someone other than my dad ever. I left crying and nauseous from it.
The worst part is, he called me to stop by on my way to work today and forced an apology, saying "i guess I'm apologizing for how I feel." What?? And he doesn't remember half of what he said and was like, "but I guess you'll always remember it." So I'm going there to talk later, what should i do

2007-01-11 11:43:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 11:42:52 · 3 answers · asked by frankie c 1 in Singles & Dating

Im an A cup, but still have enough to fill a bra. Is it ok to be an A cup or do guys prefer bigger chests? Honest answers, please.

2007-01-11 11:41:32 · 51 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 11:41:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Help I like this guy who goes 2 my skool and all his friends keep on tellin me he likes me and once i walked past him in the hallway and i heard him say he likes me to his friend.... but he is really shy and i dont think he is goin 2 ask me out because he is afraid i mite say no.... Even tho i wouldnt...how do i get him 2 ask me out with out me askin him out?

2007-01-11 11:41:04 · 31 answers · asked by Avril 1 in Singles & Dating