His Aunt, my best friend at work,(not anymore). She talked me into introducing me to her nephew. We hit it off. She got weird. Told lies about trust issues and that I would hurt him, couldn't believe anything I say. I keep telling my boyfriend she is not friendly to me anymore. He finally tells me what was told so that it would get back to him. I cried and cried. It was all lies. Well his past is filled with cheating girlfriends and cheating wife. He soon starts acting like he's half mad at me or something. He soon starts showing a little less affection to me. I constantly initiate for us to talk , go to his Aunts house and make her tell him she lied. He agrees to go but then the aunt cancels. That should have told him something. I am not a person that fights in relationships but he has always argued in his. I fight back when he accuses me anymore, I am tired of trying to talk to a brick wall. I still love him very much. Every move I make he thinks is suspicious. There is so much more.
2007-01-11 11:46:10 · 7 answers · asked by Faithful 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Exactly whats left here that you love about him? The high regard he holds for you? Or the trust and faith he has in you? The concern he has showed for you when you cried and cried....
What none of the above?
Leave this guy and his crazy family alone, let them be someone else's problem and regain your good sense and self respect and find someone with a bit of trust and affection for you.
2007-01-11 11:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This family sounds like a bunch of no good liars. I would not stay with a man who continually believes his family over me. Especially if they are lying about me.
The first man I thought I loved lied to me so often. When I found out, these lies broke my heart. He really deceived me, and hurt me, that I even fell into deep depression. The pain of a lost love does last awhile, but it will soon pass. You will no longer feel you need to be with this man. I think the best thing to do is break up with this fool. If he can't see you for who you are, then he is blind.
LOVE is a serious emotion, and it is a special thing to have, that not everyone will get to experience. There are many who settle for the person who can care for them, even if they don't love them. Don't settle, try to find someone who will really love you, and trust in your love. But most importantly trust you.
2007-01-11 12:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy has no longer something to do with love. Jealousy is spawned from worry. a number of that worry must be the lack of self assurance of one, notwithstanding it is often an illustration that the relationship is volatile. Your tries to make your boyfriend jealous are a sparkling indication which you're insecure in your self and choose the reinforcement of a jealous reaction. don't get right into a relationship except you realize a thank you to get out of one.
2016-10-07 00:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by hobin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he cares enough to fight for you.
If there's not much for you to do and you feel like he's abandoning you bit by bit...you should take the hint and be on your way.
When you ask him if he will fight for you, and he says no, that's your sign that you should leave and not look back or regret it.
I'm very sorry for what happened to you, but a guy that trusts someone else over his love interest has no interest in you whatsoever. He never really got to know you and never bothered to.
2007-01-11 11:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ide say leave... This arguing could change you as an individual - you could find yourself arguing more and more with other people because thats what your used to - it becomes a habit.. And it sounds to me like he isnt ready for a relationship yet.. why hurt yourself?
2007-01-11 11:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It truly is terrible when this happens. I have no Idea what to tell you to do,but I know I used to be in his shoes. I am still ionsecure at times. All I can ay is that I sympthize, Im sorry.
2007-01-11 11:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is so much more why waste anymore time with him move on find someone that makes you feel happy not good if all you do is argue
2007-01-11 11:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋