LADIES: Why is it that ---?

Question

When you are dating you do really fun things in the bedroom --- anything we want --- you give ---but once the ring in on your hand --- it all stops? I have talked to my friends iand the cenus is that this is true --- what gives?

Answer 1

It's the wedding cake.

Wedding cake kills the sex drive in most women. Some women are immune to this phenomenon, but most are subject to it's ravages.

It starts at the neck causing a closure at the spot where she use to swallow.

It then works it's way down the knees causing them to clamp together so tight that a penis cannot penetrate.

There is no cure for this disease but it can be disabled for brief periods.

Flowers, diamonds, and new cars may be purchased and given to the woman with this affliction and her charms will be yours again for a limited time. ( I did not say prostitution even though it sounds and behaves remarkably close)

I am sad to say that these are temporary measures at best, and if attempted too frequently, the woman will become immune and expect these gifts much like a spoiled child expects candy from an overindulgent parent.

Answer 2

Not true for all of us. I know a lot of women who do behave this way and the reason is the same reason you guys stop all the romance after the ring is on your finger. She has you, why try any harder? Best thing you can do is DON'T pressure her OR tell your friends...doing that will only make things worse. Try talking to her and explaining how you feel when she does the "really fun things" in the bedroom. Make her feel like you adore her, find her incredibly sexy and that you love her. I have heard a lot of my friends complain that all their husbands want is sex, nothing else. Women want you guys to help around the house, help with bills, kids, etc. Make an effort to make her life easier and she will more than likely make an effort to spank your a** in the bedroom!

Answer 3

Could it be that one or both now feel that you don't have to impress the other so the effort made to connect and be interested in activities the other liked while dating? Could it be that the hot lusty, passion you had in the beginning of the relationship lessens for whatever reason, i.e.time constraints, jobs, kids, just getting comfortable in the relationship, no hurry to keep the spark going as you now have conquered your goal in committing to the act of marriage
Try to talk with the other person and find what attracted each to the other in the beginning and act that out together. If you don't continue to talk and seek answers from yourself or your mate how can you ever find out what was good and continue to grow and make good memories? Your friends are as lost as you are most likely. Nobody has the right answer but you. Look inside yourself and see what makes you and your mate truly happy then act on it. Make each other the #1 priority. A woman wants her man to show her that on a daily basis just like you want some validation from her.
Good luck and keep talking.

Answer 4

I have been married for three years and if I could have sex every day I would,but my husband's schedule and mine are polar opposites. I work 7-3, and he works 3-11. So when he comes in I'm sleeping, and when I leave, he's sleeping. As you can imagine the weekends are crazy- we have a lot of catching up to do, in more ways than one. I think that sex is something couples need to discuss in detail before marriage, how much is enough, how little will drive you crazy and always stay within the other person's guidelines.

Answer 5

It isn't true for all women. I still like to be creative in the bedroom after 11 years of marriage. I feel it is a necessity to keep our relationship fresh. Trust me the women that do what you described usually end up with unhappy sex lives and learn really quick.

Answer 6

Well, in my case, I'm going through a lot of things (PPD, Adjusting to a new baby, and I just went back to work yesterday), but even if it weren't for those things, I probably wouldn't want to have sex much because my husband wants it too much! Since we've been married (1year), he has treated me like a sex slave. He thinks he can get it when he wants, where he wants, and just assumes that I'm in the mood. Anytime that I have a problem, he thinks that sex is the answer. So, if you make your wife feel like that's all you want from her, or just assume that you can have it, you won't get it.

Answer 7

My husband says the same thing however, I do have some health problems maybe she has some health problems and she isn't in the mood. You guys think you should have it 24/7 however a few times a week should be enough for ya.
Also Marriage isn't about just sex sex sex it's about companionship and helping each other out and taking care of each other and be a team.

Answer 8

YES l have to agree with you on some parts. Then again l have to agree with the others who said same thing goes for men. You can't blame us poor women for everything that goes wrong in your lives, can you ?? I have been married for 30 yrs and there's nothing wrong with our sex life. Maybe it's you. Do you think ?? Best of luck and a very happy sex life to you !!

Answer 9

they are frequently in simple terms lonely or not lonely,worrying those who love animals and don't have the middle to exhibit away strays.there should be some who're loopy,yet,hi there, each person will be loopy.And diverse human beings have diverse evaluations on what loopy is.operating example,some human beings ought to imagine you're loopy.LOL and by technique of how,i'm the dictionary woman

Answer 10

I was married for 20 years (recent widow), and the only thing that ever affected our bedroom behavior was illness or anger...soooooo, maybe the census answerers have been naughty boys